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07-07-2009, 10:46 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 45
Money: 1,406 Last Online: 02-25-2010 10:16 PM | is this ok? Is it bad to go out with a girl you are attracted to but dont really like TONS just to get dating experience under your belt for both your futures and to see if the chemistry is there? And if - after youve been dating a while, nothing emerges, just break it off? |
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07-07-2009, 10:48 AM
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Gender: Unsure Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 103
Money: 1,802 Last Online: Yesterday 03:13 PM | Re: is this ok? thats what datings for isn it
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07-07-2009, 10:52 AM
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Name: Richard Gender: Male Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Mississippi Posts: 7,830
Money: 8,064 Last Online: Today 09:49 AM My Mood: | Re: is this ok? Yeah this is called getting to know someone. If nothing happens, nothing happens!
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07-07-2009, 10:53 AM
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Name: Laura Gender: Female Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 16,487
Money: 242,234 Last Online: 03-02-2010 11:37 PM My Mood: | Re: is this ok? Yeah, it's okay. As long as you still like her and want to date, then keep her. She might be the right girl for you, but might not. And either is fine. See where the future takes you. 
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07-07-2009, 03:04 PM
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Gender: Female Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 34
Money: 624 Last Online: 02-07-2010 09:55 PM My Mood: | Re: is this ok? Go with the flow. |
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07-07-2009, 03:09 PM
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Name: Aaron Gender: Male Join Date: May 2009 Location: England Posts: 1,201
Money: 267,814 Last Online: 10-23-2009 01:54 AM My Mood: | Re: is this ok? I think if you go out with someone who you do like, but maybe not tons, to see if anything works out and see what feelings and emotions develop, is fine. That's normal. I mean, whenever you go on a date with someone, you never quite know how it's going to work out, and so it's always a chance it will or it won't work. So, you're doing nothing wrong.
If, after a little while, you realise you don't like her in that way though, you need to tell her and break it off. You can't let it go on too long, pretending you like her, when you don't. Because it's cruel to lead her on, letting her think you do like her, when all the time, you can't wait to break it off.
So yeah, go for it, and hopefully, it will work out 
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07-07-2009, 05:11 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 47
Money: -1,372 Last Online: 01-03-2010 08:53 PM | Re: is this ok? I went out with a girl who had wanted to be with me for 2 years previously, i just didnt think it would work really and i didnt think i was attracted to her enough. Finally went for it, and after a couple of months i fell for her in a big way. So it can happen. |
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07-07-2009, 06:40 PM
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Gender: Male Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 3,662
Money: 632 | Re: is this ok? If you want to go out with her just for dating experience, I suppose its alright, as long as you don't fuck her... coz that'd be tight. |
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07-07-2009, 08:00 PM
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Name: Brett :o Gender: Male Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Marsaille Posts: 532
Money: 2,306 Last Online: 01-19-2010 07:58 AM My Mood: | Re: is this ok? I guess its fine, but i prefer not to get myself into a situation like this. Something like this can lead to confusion and hurt for both parties involved.
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