I have dated many women before and had many (4, 6 month+) long relationships but I have never dated anyone that I have been good friends with. My friend was in this 5 month relationship that just ended badly. She always fought with the guy and he was controlling. So she broke up and has been down about it. Publicly she says it is nothing but I can tell when I get her to talk she looks sad.
So I have always treated her as my little sister since I met her. If she needed help I would always help the best I could as a -friend-. I never felt any type of connection to her to be honest past good friends. This 4th of July we had a party and of course she is now single (for a week & a half). She came then tagged me and we hung out the whole time at the party. We drank together, danced, and had a great time. It was very very strange for me to be honest because we were not friends like that. By the time she left the party at 3 am I actually had feelings for her.
There is apart of me that says I have to tell her how I feel. Then there is another part that says leave it alone and the friendship.
thoughts?
