ive been going out with a girl now for about 2 weeks, shes 13 and im 14,
ive asked her if she wants to go out someplaces about 5 times, now, and everytime she either hasnt been allowed or she is doing something else,
i asked her to the cinema once, and she was late, so i called her and she said shes with friends on a beach and she would meet me later, i never saw her again that night,
today i asked her to the beach because i was going with 4 of my friends , and she came 2 hours late with her friends, she sat next to me for a few minutes hugged me and said ' i love you' then went to her friends, few minutes later she told me she was moving beaches, and she would see me later, i didnt see her again today either
shes not come to every place ive asked her to, mostly because she couldnt, and the time she came to the beach, she left after about 15 mins to go to another beach
yet, she speaks to me lots on msn and says she loves me more than anything ever,

why is she doing that??
and how do i deal with it

also ive asked her to mostly every place that we could go to, beach, cinema theme park, etc, and she couldnt for ever time i asked
so where do we go from here??

thank you, please help

Maybe she does like you but is busy with her friends. This is all I could really guess.

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shouldnt a person 'she loves more than anything' be more important thna friends?
i sure would like to be with her more than my friends..

I'm pretty sure 2 weeks is too early to say she loves you more than anything but thats another topic. maybe she just sees you as someone a lil more special than her friends...all I know is just because she has a social life it doesn't mean she doesn't like you...my advice to you is watch this video cuz it's something I'm keeping in mind in my new relationship and I trust this guys words.

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She is probably one of those girls that use the word love loosely. I hate when people do this

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Hm, maybe she's a bit shy in real life so that's why she talks a lot more on MSN. Or maybe she's so busy with her friends she doesn't even realize she's avoiding you.
The only way to know is to ask her what's up and tell her you want to hang out more with her because she's your girlfriend. Friends are good to have, but she's not making room for the guy she says she loves. That needs to addressed.
Communication is really important in keeping a relationship alive.

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right,
but how do i actually tell her that? ;S
and is there anyway i can find out if she actuallly loves me ( apart from asking because as a poster above she might use the word loosely

Next time you ask and she makes an excuse, bring it up. Say something like, "I feel like we don't see each other enough. You're always busy, and a lot of times it's with your friends. Why is this?"
Don't let her beat around the bush. Ask for a direct answer because it's something you really want to know.

Well if she really loved you she would make more of an effort to be with you once you ask her to. So keep that in mind.

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but if i am asking that,
the next time we do see each other it would be awkward wouldnt it ? ;S

It will be awkward if you let it be. Show her how happy you are to see her and make her feel welcome. Give her a hug and a warm smile, then make conversation. There will be no time to feel uncomfortable.
Before she leaves, be sure to mention again how glad you are she's spending time with you. It'll encourage her to keep doing it.

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thats the other hard part for me,
i struggle with conversation with girlfriends ;S

Girls usually love to talk if you can get them going. Ask about her day, how she's been, what she does all day with her friends (lol), anything! My boyfriend and I always find something to talk about, even if it's as random as "This sand is hurting my butt because it's too hot."

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wouldnt that seem like a load of questions?
and i normally ask that on msn thoughh

Well, only ask a question if silence ensues. Once you bring up a topic, you'll both be likely to comment on it for awhile. It may lead to discussions about other things too.

You have to talk about something in person though. Just say what you'd normally say on MSN.
In a way, in person is better because you can flirt with her a bit if you can't think of something to say next. Tackle her, tickle her, pick her up and pretend like you're going to throw her in the water if you're at the beach. Girls love it even if they don't always admit it lol.

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okay,
i really want to know what she thinks of me to other people
should i use my other msn under a different name, and ask her Qs? ;P