getting back in touch with him

shoegal · 08-09-2009, 10:53 AM

There's this guy I met at at starbucks a looong time ago and we exchanged numbers but never got around to hang out. and recently I started thinking about him again and I want to get in back touch with him.
But the problem is I don't have his number anymore and I don't think he works at starbucks now. Is there a way I could try to get back in touch with him or maybe ask ppl in the store if he still works there??

captain_kurenai · 08-09-2009, 11:08 AM

Without coming off as a stalker? That may be difficult ... You seriously may be at a dead end here. You COULD ask at the work place, but usually they don't give out contact info that easily unless if they were given permission or something.

shoegal · 08-09-2009, 11:17 AM

Yeah that's true. should I not bother at all? I just don't know what to do.

captain_kurenai · 08-09-2009, 11:35 AM

If it were me, I probably wouldn't bother at all. Though, should you ever stumble upon the guy again, definitely go for it. So, it wouldn't hurt to check at that Starbucks to see if he's still working there. You never know. If he isn't, then it's probably best to just move on to someone else.

ames · 08-09-2009, 01:07 PM

I agree with the captain.

I Promise · 08-09-2009, 06:41 PM

I have to agree, I think it's going to be hard if you don't have the number anymore. They won't be allowed to just give you a number of an employee, or ex staff, and if he didn't know your name, then even if they agreed to pass it on, he probably won't have a clue who you are not. All you can do is keep looking to see if you catch him in there again, and hope he hasn't left. If you know his first name, you could casually ask if he still works there, usually if someone leaves they might say 'No, he left, he's working at xxx now' or something. You never know

shoegal · 08-10-2009, 08:40 AM

I guess it's a long shot finding him again. I'll try asking if he still works there. Hopefully, I'll find some out some more info.