thanks people except the guys who wrote about lamp chops and that every guy cheats. on jealousy issues we had a talk and he said something about when he hangs out with his friends and theres other girls around he feels like he cant be himself because if he even talks to one of them that maybe they'll no me or someone there will no me and tell me and theyll blow it out of proportion to me and ill flip on him. well i kinda guess i would lol. but it makes me feel better that he's thinking about me before he talks to girls soo he knows when to draw a line soo i told him its ok if he talks to girls just no flirting and crap and he was like i noo babe and stuff but another thing we were in the moment and i was giving him a hand job then he said u want to give me head after a while and i mean we've gone the wholllle way but when he askes it makes me feeel horriable about myself soo when he asked i ripped my hand away and was like what the fuck is ur problem u dueche bag cause i told him not to ask like a 3525 times then hes like im sorry im soo sorry thats not the way it was suppose to sound... well then which way was it suppose to sound??... idk then i turned around and started crying and hes like ooo noooo oo noo baby dont cry and stuff and hes like look at me soo i did then he started crying and he put his head on my tummy and i kinda coouldnt help but hug his head and i mean... its wrong for him to ask right???

Hrm , no not really. Men have a higher hormone leval than girls so they are bound to want head, its perfectly natural and its very plesarable for the reciver

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Avacrafts online Boyfriend, Avacraft

1. Ur right
2. Nice spelling xD
3. I like cake.

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Whitelight3r <3

I am such a cruddy speller, and I also like cake

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Avacrafts online Boyfriend, Avacraft

dont feel like a hoe if he asks you. talk it over with him. tell him to ask more subtly next time, or just to let thing lead into rather than to ask you for head.

i need you to listen to me. It appears that the guy you're dating is perhaps the nicest guy ever or mildy retarded. Either way...you should hold on to him.

1. guys dont care so much about getting handjobs b/c they can do it themselves, and 99% of the time better.
2. he wanted oral sex. he asked you. you've done it before and it wasn't out of the blue. I see nothing wrong here.
3. you removed your hand and started crying. wtf. seriously. wtf. If I had an erection and some chick just stopped doing what she was doing to cry, and either beat it off in front of her and splooge on her, or just go find another girl.

all the guy wants is head...which you should be very willing to do considering he doesn't even talk to girls b/c he doesnt want to hurt you.

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Personally for me, I tell all my guys, don't ask me for it, cause you're not gonna get it. If I FEEL like I want to do that for you, I'll initiate it. Just don't ask me for it, and if you push on my head in the SLIGHTEST, you're fuckin dead.

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ever consider this is why you're having so many bf problems?

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Ha! If he's that stuck on getting head more often I don't want his ass anyways!

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narrator: and with that, Absolutely Unsure solidified her path to lesbianism because after all, what does a guy want sexually with a girl that doesn't give head.

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Rofl!!!!

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Avacrafts online Boyfriend, Avacraft

I would totally make a good narrator for reality tv type stuff.

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That killed me for some reason.

Anyways, I agree with Phuck Buddy, you were kinda being a whiney betch. I mean he asked you and it wasn't like, 'Suck it or die betch!'. He was genuine about it. You need to learn to stop being so emotional over stupid shit and stop making him feel like he's doing things wrong when he really isn't. If you don't want to do it, just say no and move on.