Confusing please help.

PerfectMatch7 · 08-02-2007, 07:22 PM

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months. After 8 months I like him don't get me wrong, but the little things he does now gets on my nerves. WE just don't seem to hae a spark any more at all, and now seeings as how he is not aloud at my house I barley see him.

So the other night I went camping with some friends...and we played beer pong. Well my friend will's Bestfriend I have always thought he was cute, but we never got along he thinks I am a bitch and I think he is an ass. But the other night I wasn't around my BF and this kid and I started talking and we found out I am only really a bitch around my BF and latly everyone has said it. So the two people we came with took up my tent, so he offerfed me his tent to share. So when we got in the tent we talked about every thing ( accroding to his best Friend he doesn't normaly open up) so we talked about past,present, and future. So while talking he was like oh my feet are cld can you warm them so he put his feet with mine, and then slowly over like 30min he got alot closer. He still had his feet on me, and then he started playing with my hand, and then he held my hand like intertwinded. then he got really close and we cuddled he held me so close and then I looked at him and our faces were SO close that he kissed me. He made all thse moves, and I never once thought about my BF I felt SO safe in his arms I couldn't think of anyone. and I loved it! I don't know if he generally ment this though and if he does I would give anything to be with him, but like I said we never got along before that, and then that happended so Idk? someone please help I can answer any questions to clear it up.

x-mercedes-x · 08-02-2007, 07:29 PM

I think you need to talk to him about what happened and how you feel, if he wants a relationship then you should end it with your current boyfriend and go with will instead because it seems like you'd have a much better relationship and be happier with him.

Phuck Buddy · 08-02-2007, 09:18 PM

sounds like you're not really interested in your "bf" anymore

Mattilicious · 08-02-2007, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Phuck Buddy

sounds like you're not really interested in your "bf" anymore

You need to really think about things before you 'let them happen'. It doesn't matter if you didn't initate anything, you let it happen and so you are still in the wrong and yes you cheated on your boyfriend. So talk to both of them and tell them what you want, because nobody deserves to be treated like shit.

PerfectMatch7 · 08-02-2007, 09:44 PM

No I agree, I did let it happen and as for the BF thing Idk how I feel about him anymore and I think it's time to end things, but idk how to and idk what is going on with this other guy I am just confused

Spike · 08-03-2007, 12:50 AM

You really should be honest with your BF, how would you like it if he went behind your backs touching up other ladys

PerfectMatch7 · 08-03-2007, 01:28 AM

I understand that and i have two options to come out of this.

1. I tell my boyfriend and try to stay together

2. i tell my boyfriend and break up with him.

but I need to know how this other guy feels first idk with him he has a hard out side and doesn't always let people in

Angelwings411 · 08-03-2007, 01:42 AM

Well,
You need to tell your boyfriend, that is a given.
Tell him you aren't happy anymore with him,
maybe the friend likes you, maybe not,
you should consult him about that night though.
Hear his feedback on the situation.

summer_nights33267 · 08-04-2007, 11:58 AM

i think you should break up with your boyfriend

MinX · 08-04-2007, 12:33 PM

Uh, you need to dump your current boyfriend, and talk to the guy you were with. I don't know if you should tell your boyfriend you cheated on him, but if you don't, and he hears it from someone else... that will make you look bad.