Jealousy.

literal-freak · 08-05-2007, 10:28 PM

I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months now but originally he went out with my friend for a month, she finished it with him but he was planning to end it anyway and we're very honest with each other so i believe him when he says that.
After 6 months of being completely happy together my friend, his ex, has suddenly started moving in on him. The main problem is she takes great delight in telling me about how they spent the whole night talking and that theyve really bonded. Its got to the stage where she'll now invite him places with our friends and not me.
I've told him I'm jealous and he says I have nothing to worry about and that hes in no way interested.
I've even spoken to her and asked her simply not to talk to me about him.
I appreciate i cant stop them being friends and i dont even want to but im confsued as to why she's doing this when shes been in a happy relationship for 7 months with a boy she professes to love.
Should I be jealous?
Should I speak to him again?

Phuck Buddy · 08-06-2007, 09:00 PM

I think she's doing it because she's jealous. she might be dating another guy, but she might like her ex, your bf, more. I dont think you should be jealous because you have him, but I do think you should be concerned. He hasn't done anything wrong, so there's no reason for you to not speak with him again.

I think you should tell him that when he spends time with her away from you, that it makes you uncomfortable because she's his ex. Tell him its not that your jealous, because you cant be...because you ARE dating him, but because she purposely invites you and not her even though she is friends with you and knows that you and him are dating.