hi im new here and i have a few questions that i could use some help on about how to get a girl.

question 1: i dont ussually go to parties because i dont really like drinking but most of my friends met there girlfriends at parties. what should i do?

question 2: im kinda shy and the only time i really act like myself is either with my friends or online so my question is how do you go about talkin to a girl?let alone ask one out.

question 3:how important is appearance?im about 10 pounds overweight but i dont have a belly or anything just some a little extra padding lol ive been excersizeing alot and have lost a few pounds but still need to lose a few more but do girls ignore me because of that or is something wrong with my appearance?(ill post a picture a little later).

so i guess those are the questions for now

1. you go to those parties but don't drink.
2. tell yourself that if you don't get your act together, some other guy will snatch the girl in front of your eyes..
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as for losing weight, my mom has been pestering me to lose weight also.. it's really bothering to have her tell you all the time to diet, to exercise, to take diet pils.. you're gaining weight here , you're not losing, you should do this and that.. i'm really fed too.. my mom has been showing me this page about xenical. http://www.drugdelivery.ca/s3729-s-XENICAL.aspx which is supposed to stop absorption of fats in the body.. i think it's great, though i've not lost anything..

1. so just go to the parties...what the guy above me said. You don't need to drink. Just be someone's designated driver so you won't feel the peer pressure.
2. stop being a pussy. you go up to a girl and say "hi, my name is (blank), what's yours" or something to that effect and go from there. keep well in your league though. I wouldn't go for any cheerleaders or anything like that.
3. 10 lbs is not that much overweight, but also depends on how old you are and what you weigh. You gotta watch what you eat also. Eat a bigger lunch and a smaller dinner and don't eat dinner too late. Don't eat too many carbs and stay away from sweets.

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