Don’t know how to handle the situation

gabriel_4kis21 · 08-09-2007, 04:07 PM

My best friend started this illegal racing thing every Saturday night. She goes with her good friend who I don’t get along with. I asked her if we'd ever get to do anything on a Saturday night again and she said no. I was shocked! Part of me wants to cry. She would rather hang out with this other girl every weekend and I just don’t know how to handle it! Any advice??

mopsymog · 08-09-2007, 07:21 PM

you kind of have to accept that she has plans wit someone else. you cant control whats she is doing. it will be upsetting if you are just sitting in on a saturday night. just go out with some other friends and still have a good time. and besides there are 6 other days in a week. use that to spend time with her

x-mercedes-x · 08-09-2007, 08:49 PM

Well it's not as if she said she NEVER wants to hang around with you, just on a saturday night and surely you have plenty of other friends who you can go out with of a weekend. Don't let it get to you.

xxXRawrHelloKittyxxX · 08-10-2007, 01:51 AM

You shouldn't wait around for her to say, "Let's do something Saturday." You need to get out and do the same thing she does. And when she asks you to do something then simply tell her that you have other plans, that maybe you guys could get together some other time. That will clearly make her think. But I think you're kinda jealous about the other girl. You're use to being around your best friend, problaby all the time. And you're jealous that she has found someone else to hang with.