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08-10-2007, 11:03 PM
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This kinda gets to me..
I am writing this up for a bit of advice, if possible 
Ok, basically, going back to the sexuality discussion again..i just want to know about something. I think i am getting myself into a mess over the whole situation, i dont understand my mind at the slightest, it seems to change like instantly. One minute im totally un attracted to guys, then another minute i feel i really fancy someone imparticular. But what so confuses me is the fact of not knowing what to do in this situation. I know im obviously not gay, but i still feel bisexual. I know i am that and the problem is, i would obviously prefer a gf to a bf. However i met a guy that i kinda like , that i may give a relationship a go with. But i still feel this is not enough for me. If i go out with a guy, i will want a gf too. Does anyone else feel this way?? I am going to try to get into a community with people that are exploring their sexuality in september, but isit normal to be in a relationship with both a guy and a girl at the same time? I would love to be with a girl, but with a boy also...having a relationship with a guy is probably fine, but i also want to have a gf at separate times...both on the same go. But i dont know if this is natural:S I mean one minute i feel im gay, one minute im totally against guys or non attracted to them at all, thenanother minute im fine with them. Im totally confused!
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Last edited by Kat; 08-11-2007 at 12:52 AM.
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08-11-2007, 01:20 AM
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Re: This kinda gets to me..
if you start dating a guy who is not  , he won't mind you hookin up with girls as long as he can watch/participate |
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08-11-2007, 03:55 AM
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Re: This kinda gets to me..
Problem is, hes straight. He knows im bi though.
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08-11-2007, 04:24 AM
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Re: This kinda gets to me..
a lotta straight guys like that kinda stuff, dont they?
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08-11-2007, 04:25 AM
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Re: This kinda gets to me..
what?
Im not sure whether he would like me dating a guy and seeing him too though. Im stuck on what to do in this situation.
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08-11-2007, 04:27 AM
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Re: This kinda gets to me..
dating a guy? dont you mean dating a girl?
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08-11-2007, 04:32 AM
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Re: This kinda gets to me..
whoops sorry...wasnt thinking then, dont know why i put that LOL!
edit: girl
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08-11-2007, 04:37 AM
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Re: This kinda gets to me..
lol, its ok.
maybe you could ask him?
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08-11-2007, 04:38 AM
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Re: This kinda gets to me..
But in your eyes, do you think its normal to do it?
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08-11-2007, 04:47 AM
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Re: This kinda gets to me..
ionno, i dont think i could be with my boyfriend and have another partner at the same time, but if it was just another girl to mess around with, providing he knew about it and was ok with it, then yeah, maybe.
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08-11-2007, 04:48 AM
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Re: This kinda gets to me..
I wouldnt never go off with another guy at the same time, i would never two time. But what i would do is be with a girl aswell..because one wouldnt be enough for me. I just wandered whether this was wrong though.
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08-11-2007, 04:55 AM
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Re: This kinda gets to me..
urm...
maybe you could just try out being with him for like a few weeks or something, and then if you still feel like you need someone else, you could talk it over with him?
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08-11-2007, 05:14 AM
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Just Phuck it!