Is it worth it?

Sophie..* · 10-23-2009, 07:14 PM

Hi guys (:

Basically, i started 6th form a couple of weeks ago, and obviously some new people came to 6th form, from other schools etc. I heard about a boy from a friend, and basically hes from a foregin country and has a rather cool name

Anyway, i had saw him a couple of times, but hadnt really spoke to him, as im kinda shy around new people.

About 3 weeks into term, he moved into my form, but i still didnt talk to him. My bestfriend was in his history class, and i used to give him a quick hello and a smile when i saw him outside. I'v only once talked to him in person, and hes acctually lovley, and is really funny

I added him on facebook about 2 weeks ago now, and he has 'liked' some of my photos, and weve chatted a bit. I also invited him to a party on sunday which im holding for me bestmate, which hes coming too

The only problem is that, one of the other girls who's also new, is really good friends with him.. Theres like nothing wrong with that, but i dont really wanna get involved with him, if him and her are close!?

I'm just well confused, and dont rally know what to do? Hes the only iv ever felt these sort of feelings for, everytime i see him my belly goes who flippy, and i get like ewll shy around him..:/

So the question is should i go ahead or not? I dont want to ruin anybody else's relationship with him, but if she does decide she wants to get with him whatevs, i keep telling people id be cool with him, but i know i wont.

Its like well confusing, and yeah any help would be nice, it's just so confusing, and yeahh :/
Thankyou

Bektas · 10-23-2009, 07:26 PM

If you really really like him, and you are commited, go for it. good luck

Ready · 10-24-2009, 05:22 AM

If you don't know for sure that she's in a relationship with him, or even interested in him, just go for it. You sound like a nice enough person, but from what I've learned, if you let your friends get all your potential relationships, you'll never be happy with anyone.

ANTI CONDOM · 10-24-2009, 07:20 AM

I'm confused. The question is, does the guy have a "girlfriend" or just a best friend? Answer please.

ptt1404 · 10-25-2009, 03:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sophie..*

Hi guys (:

Basically, i started 6th form a couple of weeks ago, and obviously some new people came to 6th form, from other schools etc. I heard about a boy from a friend, and basically hes from a foregin country and has a rather cool name

Anyway, i had saw him a couple of times, but hadnt really spoke to him, as im kinda shy around new people.

About 3 weeks into term, he moved into my form, but i still didnt talk to him. My bestfriend was in his history class, and i used to give him a quick hello and a smile when i saw him outside. I'v only once talked to him in person, and hes acctually lovley, and is really funny

I added him on facebook about 2 weeks ago now, and he has 'liked' some of my photos, and weve chatted a bit. I also invited him to a party on sunday which im holding for me bestmate, which hes coming too

The only problem is that, one of the other girls who's also new, is really good friends with him.. Theres like nothing wrong with that, but i dont really wanna get involved with him, if him and her are close!?

I'm just well confused, and dont rally know what to do? Hes the only iv ever felt these sort of feelings for, everytime i see him my belly goes who flippy, and i get like ewll shy around him..:/

So the question is should i go ahead or not? I dont want to ruin anybody else's relationship with him, but if she does decide she wants to get with him whatevs, i keep telling people id be cool with him, but i know i wont.

Its like well confusing, and yeah any help would be nice, it's just so confusing, and yeahh :/
Thankyou

It's looks like that you're really like him but... what does he think about you ? how much times aplsday day he miss you ? You have to recon first, contact me i'm busy now sorryy

Sophie..* · 10-28-2009, 04:09 PM

I dont know if he likes me or anything? I dont wanna come across as a complete bitch, to this other girl.. Well i'll see when we get back too school i guess

max123987 · 10-28-2009, 06:59 PM

Go for it, if he's dating her he'll probably tell you if you ask him out.