Which guy? the long time flirty friend or the mysterious new friend?

futurestar · 11-02-2009, 07:17 AM

(sorry its a little long) I have a friend at school who im pretty close to and when ever we hang out everyone thinks we r a couple. i really like him because we can have serious conversations and also chill together and he goes to my school. then there is another guy i just met who i dont kno as well and goes to another school but i kno he's really into me. so do i choose the friend i trust and hav liked for a long time or go for the other dude who i dont kno as well but have a sure chance at a relationship? HELP ME!!!

lovemehateme6 · 11-02-2009, 07:25 AM

if you're not sure which one you like more, than maybe you should just step back from both of them for awhile. better to stop and think about things than make a rash decision when you're not sure about your feelings..

but to me, it sounds like you have a great thing going with the guy you've known for a long time. why fix something that's not broken! (:

futurestar · 11-03-2009, 04:45 AM

thats what i thought but then he brought another girl to homecoming and it totally knocked me off track. i was pretty confused.

eXposed · 11-03-2009, 05:25 AM

I think you should find out if your current friend is interested in you. If you take it to the next step with him, and he doesn't have a spark - then your relationship as friend will decrease.

If he does, then go for it!
If he doesn't, I think you should wait.

I do not suggest going out with another man you don't know, especially if he is new.