I go to boarding school. Where I live & where i go school are diffrent places, so it's just boarding. anyways so me & my roomate r 'frienemeys' or however u spell it. she is a scene kid & im laid back, we have nothing in common but sometimes we get along although ive caught her talking shit about me behind my back (thin walls, thin doors) a couple times. anyways she started dating one of the guys here & claims that he loves her after dating for...10 days. but of course they spent everyday with eachother for a month before that. she almost never spoke about him & didn't show much emotion either than getting a little bit hyper the day they where official.

Now, I have a crush on a guy at school, I know it sounds sad but he is only the second guy in my life that i've felt butterflies for. the last one, i was about 9 or 10 so i don't remember it that well. Anyways i thought he was really good looking from day 1, i didn't tell her, i tell our well i dont know how u call it, but she is a 19 year old who is volunteering to be with us & stuff. Anyways, about 2 weeks ago i started getting butterflies whenever i thought of him & it started developing into a pretty major crush & i suddenly couldn't stop talking to the 19 year old about it & my roomate hears everything. I talk & talk & talk because im just TOO excited & if i don't get it out i feel bad inside like i just HAVE to. now my roomate says im a physco & that im inlove with the guy, that i act like a little child because i can't stop thinking of him & that i can't concentraqte in class + he is 2 months younger than me, which is nothing but in school years he is one grade below. anyways she keeps putting me down & insulting me about it, so is it my fault for acting like a little kid?
what do u think of her reaction? how do i quit talking about him?

your not acting like a kid, so you have a huge crush and your really happy and excited, shes probly just pissed off cause youve find a really good guy

Her reaction is really harsh and honestly, it sounds like shes jealous

You dont quit talking about him, if thats what shes gettin pissed off about, then talk it out to somebody else, then she has no excuses to be angry!

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To be honest, I would of slapped that girl right in the face for calling you psycho.

In other words, I think you should enroll and take him! If you love him this much, you have nothing to loose.

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Of course its not your fault for talkin about someone you like. Her reaction is pretty immature. I'm pretty much goin through the same thing right now, so i can def. see where your coming from. Only thing is i don't talk about her because i got no1 that really cares lol, but you shouldn't stop talkin bout him if u don't wanna.

im trying so much not to re-play her voice in my head.

She thinks his a wierdo & she thinks im disgustin cz his a year younger argh...

at the end of the day, does it really matter what she thinks???

Its your choice, who you want to be with

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tell her to go shuv it where the sun don't shine.
if he makes you happy, don't give up on him just because of some jealous girl.

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she's not jelous, she has a boyfriend.

then whats her problem?

just cause hes younger than you? so what!

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First of all, your roomate is a psyco bitch.
Second, you're not acting like a child. You're just expressing feelings to other people. There's no problem with that, now is there?
Expressing feelings never hurt anyone. She just probably doesn't know how to show any feeling or emotion at all. So, don't feel bad, k?
And, my thought to you is to just.. vent.
What you feel and what not. Make sure it's to someone you trust with the information, if you don't WANT the information to get out. Or,
talk to your wall.

She is jealous.
Because like you said, it doesn't seem like she cares for her boy that much.
She's jealous of the feelings you have for him. She wishes she could feel something that deep for someone.
Also, I say GO FOR IT. You have nothing to lose but rejection and even though I know that can be REALLY hard when you really like someone, but the alternative to that is they say yes, and that's better than anything!

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Exactly. You shouldn't care about her opinion. It's what you want that matters, and you don't want her opinion, right?
Go for it!