birthday suprise??

oscarius4 · 11-08-2009, 12:47 AM

i was on facebook and found out the girl i fancies birthday is on 17th november. I like her a lot. i think she probably knows i fancy her. I sit next to her in R.E and i talk to her and make her laugh and all the basic stuff and i think she might like me. (I do not really talk to her much outside my R.E lesson mainly cause i dnt actually know where she hangs out.) anyways would it be considerd a bad move to give her a bday present or would that be stalkerie if i knew her birthday even though im not in her friendship group. if you think i should what do you think i should get her. (i have £20 max to spend i think) hpefully somthing that all girls like. thank you.

Budsmoka · 11-08-2009, 12:52 AM

Lol dude you're going about his all wrong. Your going to see creepy or lame one of the two, don't be an AFC. If you want to get some female attention and maybe get a date or two with this girl check the link in my sig. Your Welcome.

oscarius4 · 11-08-2009, 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Budsmoka

Lol dude you're going about his all wrong. Your going to see creepy or lame one of the two, don't be an AFC. If you want to get some female attention and maybe get a date or two with this girl check the link in my sig. Your Welcome.

The stuff in the link seems to be kinda aimed maybe at an older more american audiance and also sounds like yur aim is to go out with as many women at as fast a rate as possible before you die. I really like he and i want somthing romantic to spark a good solid relationship yhat may last like a year rather than become some player or somthing (I really like her). i used to think about girls like that when i was about 12 e.g i have to be muscley and say cringeworthy chat up lines, but now i think i would rather have someone i can really love rather than ogle their cleavage.

Budsmoka · 11-08-2009, 06:39 AM

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Originally Posted by oscarius4

The stuff in the link seems to be kinda aimed maybe at an older more american audiance and also sounds like yur aim is to go out with as many women at as fast a rate as possible before you die. I really like he and i want somthing romantic to spark a good solid relationship yhat may last like a year rather than become some player or somthing (I really like her). i used to think about girls like that when i was about 12 e.g i have to be muscley and say cringeworthy chat up lines, but now i think i would rather have someone i can really love rather than ogle their cleavage.

If you want a shot at her fallow my shit or look like a total loser by getting her a present and wasting your money. Girls only like romantic things from a guy their involved with and you don't even know her that well. Do you have her number even?

flygirl382 · 11-08-2009, 07:12 AM

You probably would come off as a little creepy. Just say Happy Birthday to her. She'll appreciate it still, and you won't look like a stalker.

oscarius4 · 11-08-2009, 02:05 PM

thank you, all i wanted was a nice not harsh answer from someone. i wanted to know if it was a good idea not wether im a gay loser wth no friends.

types · 11-09-2009, 11:02 AM

take no notice of Budsmoka, i havnt been here long but he seems like a dick...but he's not just a dick, he's a BANNED dick

getting her a present might be a little overboard but a card or something could be nice

lil_nicky · 11-09-2009, 10:45 PM

You should get her a card and say happy birthday. getting her a present if your not one of her main friends may be too much too fast. I know Im only young and not that great at advice, but i know i would be a little creeped out if someone that isnt one of my best friends got me a present for my birthday.

x-mercedes-x · 11-09-2009, 10:56 PM

Just say Happy Birthday to her, maybe even a card, which will just let her know that you were thinking of her but i wouldn't advise getting a present, it just comes across a little too keen which can easily put a girl off.

Sharkbait · 11-09-2009, 11:07 PM

get a card, nothing more.

In a womans epic logic, if you show too much interest your a weirdo, and if you treat her like crap or dont notice her, your an ideal partner.

alfaspider06 · 11-10-2009, 12:56 AM

I would say not even a card...if your not real good friends with her it will come off as a little weird or desperate. Saying happy birthday is plenty.