So here's the situation:
About a month ago I went out with some friends of mine. In the group there was a guy I hadn't met before and I ended up talking to him and hanging out with him for most of the night. I also ended up getting pretty drunk and so he kind of took care of me and looked out for me. I ended up staying the night at his dorm because I was exhausted and in pretty bad shape. However, he didn't try anything just made me comfortable and talked to me till I fell asleep. It was really sweet. So in the morning we exchanged phone numbers, though I wasn't expecting him to ever call/text because that's usually the kind of luck I have.

To my surprise that morning he texted me and we ended up talking basically the entire day. After that point we started hanging out. We hung out and texted basically every single day for about two weeks and it was really great. We had the best conversations, he was really sweet and affectionate but didn't try to make any fast moves. I'd sleep over in his dorm sometimes and we'd pretty much just cuddle until we fell asleep. I thought we had a really nice thing going. We even both admitted to each other that we liked each other a lot.

Then randomly about a week and a half ago he started acting weird. He stopped really trying to kiss me and whenever I came over to hang out there were always other people there. And then he just stopped asking me to come over altogether and rarely texted me. Last night I sent him a message just flat out saying that I missed hanging out with him and was wondering why I don't see him anymore but that I'd leave him alone after that if he didn't want to talk.
he ended up responding a few hours later saying he was going to be busy this week but we can text and figure something out. It was late and I didn't respond.
now I'm not an idiot I can read what he's saying in that message. It's completely obvious he's not interested anymore.

the issues here is I don't understand what happened. We had some awesome times together. I even remember him saying this one night we went out together was the most fun he'd had in months. So why did he decide to ignore me? Half of me wants to initiate another conversation with him and find out just to have some peace of mind, and the other part of me says "he's not interested just let it go. dont be a stalker."

so basically this has been kind eating away at me. I really liked this guy and I really want to know if I did something wrong and/or why he was so into one minute and so not the next.

how do I get over this??

He never really made any moves and he expected you to put out.

ok don't get me wrong here it's not like we didn't do anything.
we messed around a bit but I'm just making it clear that our "relationship" (if you can even call it that) wasn't based on physical stuff. And trust me I was the initiator if anything.

Well I don't mean to be rude but are you fat?

haha no. I'm 5' 4" about 117 lbs if you wanna get technical.

Well he just wanted some booty and hes moved on. Dude is too much of a pussy to break it off in person and I guess he wants to avoid confrontation.

Doubt the 'booty' part completely. I'm a university student and if any of my guys wanted boot, they would have done it the first night. Trust me on that one...haha. Maybe he's lost interest in you? Possibly, although it is hard for us to tell. He could have just wanted attention and to know that there is hope out there for him...Kind o flike a confidence/self-reassurance. Or a good possibility is that he IS BUSY and can't hang out. Plus, what's wrong with you hanging out with him when his friends are over. IF you want a relationship, which I assume you might, then meeting his friends is a must.

Just be patient sista. Don't stress out.

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It is possible he's busy but I just feel like he totally changed. Like even if he was busy he could still send me a text message once in a while. I'm pretty sure he has lost interest in me I just wish I knew why...

edit:
oh and I do love his friends, I actually miss seeing them as much as him lol

just stop. honestly.






ask him, it could be school related. Heavy workloads are atm.

Its obvious hes lost interest. I used to use the same routine.