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Tried too hard, now I like someone else who's taken
I've been on/off with my girlfriend for the last 14-15 months, and I say "on/off" because we've broken up literally about 10 times. I used to love her more than anthing else in the world, but I think because I tried so hard at making it work before, I just don't feel interested in her anymore, but now she's finally feeling how I did and now I can't get rid of her. This is very awkward because we both lost our virginities together.
The other pain-in-the-arse thing about all of this is I've really started to like a friend of mine who has a boyfriend, but I know they've been rocky lately.
My friend thinks she's interested but I'm not too sure, and I don't wanna end up ruining everything between her and her boyfriend.
I know it's pretty complicated, but I really need some advise on this, 'cause it's messing me up
Re: Tried too hard, now I like someone else who's taken
I know it's easier said than done but ..
1. Tell the person you've been seeing that you're just not interested. Be TRUTHFUL.
2. Talk to the person you do like .. She'll tell you what she wants to do.
Re: Tried too hard, now I like someone else who's taken
tell your gf that u dont feel the same way about her as you used to and u think it would be better if she could find someone who does feel that way about her.
as for your friend, if she knows but is still with this other guy then dont rush it. if they arent going good then just wait and see what happens if they break up, then wait a bit and ask her out. and if ur friend told her, its not the same as u tellin her. u should talk to her and tell her how u feel. it might make a difference.
Re: Tried too hard, now I like someone else who's taken
Ok, if an opinion still matters, I have to say that the first half of your situation (a.k.a. everything but liking someone else), I was in. Only difference is that I was the one that started to like really like her again but she was the one losing interest. I didn't realize this for a while but when I did I guess you could say we mutually cut it off.
Anyway, my point, I found out later that she lost interest like a month or so ago, and I was pissed that she just didn't break up with me, it was a waste of my time, so my real point is you got to end it now.
Re: Tried too hard, now I like someone else who's taken
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Originally Posted by BlockHead2111
I've been on/off with my girlfriend for the last 14-15 months, and I say "on/off" because we've broken up literally about 10 times. I used to love her more than anthing else in the world, but I think because I tried so hard at making it work before, I just don't feel interested in her anymore, but now she's finally feeling how I did and now I can't get rid of her. This is very awkward because we both lost our virginities together.
The other pain-in-the-arse thing about all of this is I've really started to like a friend of mine who has a boyfriend, but I know they've been rocky lately.
My friend thinks she's interested but I'm not too sure, and I don't wanna end up ruining everything between her and her boyfriend.
I know it's pretty complicated, but I really need some advise on this, 'cause it's messing me up
Re: Tried too hard, now I like someone else who's taken
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Originally Posted by BlockHead2111
I've been on/off with my girlfriend for the last 14-15 months, and I say "on/off" because we've broken up literally about 10 times. I used to love her more than anthing else in the world, but I think because I tried so hard at making it work before, I just don't feel interested in her anymore, but now she's finally feeling how I did and now I can't get rid of her. This is very awkward because we both lost our virginities together.
The other pain-in-the-arse thing about all of this is I've really started to like a friend of mine who has a boyfriend, but I know they've been rocky lately.
My friend thinks she's interested but I'm not too sure, and I don't wanna end up ruining everything between her and her boyfriend.
I know it's pretty complicated, but I really need some advise on this, 'cause it's messing me up
i could see myself in that situation in like a year...but first i gotta get my girlfriend back.
anyway...wat everyone else says seems right, just talk to the 2 girls.
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