Here's my problem: There's this one girl I like and I think she likes me. I've been flirting with her to moderate success. A couple days ago I found out she may be pregnant with her exes' kid. I do care for her but I am conflicted...

Two different sides of me are arguing it out. One side of me says stay with her no matter what cause love should triumph. If I do this I could very well be just a used tool at her disposal. The other side of me says to leave her the hell alone and GTF outta there. If I do that I look like a total prick.

Another item is the ex himself. She talks to him. At times he's nice to her but at other times he's a prick. He says he'll be there but I think once the kid is born, that could full well fly out the window.

What do I do?

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If your prepared to look after and love someone else child then go with it. You also need to accept the fathers presence in the relationship, because he will be there.

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If she chooses to have the child, then you may be getting yourself in for years of hardship. I recommend getting out of there, romantically speaking, right now. Remain a close friend and support her in her times of struggle, but nothing more than that.

Agreed Retch. However I was thinking complete and total abandon ship...

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If that's what she means to you, then yeah. Leave. This isn't your battle to fight.

I may have to, this is not my problem.

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She is a used item, dont go there

hehehehe

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break away !

Yeh but seriously, i think you should stay out of it

Done...I have completely shut off all contact to her.

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