ugh so i guess ive learned ma lesson bt any heart broken remedies

jenniferakajenny · 11-24-2009, 11:09 AM

sooo..i never wudve imagined datin a younger boy i am currently nineteen and nd i wudve never imagined me dating a boy dat wud consist of long distance neither and worse if i met him off some cheesy site! but guess what i went against all odds mustve bumped ma head i started chattin with him and we exchanged numbers i later learned he was from the bronx ny nd i live in jersey i was born n queens but moved to jersey yung becuz fathers job was here in nj. neways i thought why not i need a fone buddy being as life was so stressful .little did i know dhat its still like a real relationship just not in person well we argued alot hes a aries im a scorpio according to horoscope matches we dont match up at all so we call nd txt and i get so use to diz guy its crazy he gave me butterflies and i wud be anxious waitin for his call becuase our first conversation had so much chemistry neways he came out wun day nd said baby im 17 im like what! im nineteen soo i got mad broke up with him nd after a week off holding a non talking grudge we got back with each other so we had our ups and downs so its been a month still havent met him he was sayin i love you and all nd it felt like i knew him ma whole life we exchanged pics all da time nd i was hyper becuz was suppose to get car never did it went downhill he said he cudnt do the reltionship thing nomore nd it sorta offended me ive dealt wit alot with him he had anger issues and i stuck by him ..maybe he was to you but it just pist me off dhat evrythng serious he wud txt it instead of talk it out so he texted me bout how he wasnt happy nt seeing me nd dis nd dhat i told him to jus say it he sed its over can we be friends i was like wow give me some time and i said now i do wanna see you jus so you can see what you missed out on idc if it was imature im mad he was a waste of time nd i have my stomach n a knot because he was the first boy dhat ever broke up with me! so idkj how to take it! i got love for him and i was sooo use to himm remedies for a heart break and im so mad to even think dis shit wud work out!

Shute · 11-24-2009, 11:16 AM

Alright... well... wha?

Anywho... uhh... read a book?

jenniferakajenny · 11-24-2009, 12:04 PM

wow yuh suck at advice

Heather · 11-24-2009, 12:07 PM

Mmkay, so you basically met a guy online, and it didn't work out, for distance reasons etc. All you can really do is not talk to him. He obviously isn't going to be worth your time if he's not willing to deal with certain circumstances. Distance is tough, on any relationship. It can kill any relationship, really, it can. I'm sure that you can find an amazing guy somewhere around where you live, and just forget about this guy.

Good luck.

Goddess of Judecca · 11-24-2009, 12:08 PM

Big wall of light pink text. Cbf. Try again.

~Maggot

jenniferakajenny · 11-24-2009, 12:20 PM

thank you as simple as dat was it was helpful nd straight to the point im just beatin maself up for even allowin maself to be in a situation like dhat but ure totally right thankk youuu

anti-hero · 11-24-2009, 12:29 PM

Why can people get attached to people they never even met before????

Heather · 11-24-2009, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by anti-hero

Why can people get attached to people they never even met before????

Because when people are going through a rough time, as the OP said she was, they tend to get attached to emotional connections they have with people. It's possible to get attached to someone you talk to online, or on the phone. Physical connection isn't always necessary to get attached.

Goddess of Judecca · 11-24-2009, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by anti-hero

Why can people get attached to people they never even met before????

Once you've spent enough time talking to someone, you know them, even online. There's people I know online that have a better understanding of who I am than just about anyone I know IRL.

~Maggot

Sharkbait · 11-24-2009, 11:18 PM

What???

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Originally Posted by jenniferakajenny

hes a aries im a scorpio according to horoscope matches we dont match up at all

Whatttt??????

jenniferakajenny · 02-04-2010, 03:33 PM

that is so true u are good at giving advice thanks