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11-26-2009, 12:54 AM
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Money: 305 Last Online: Today 06:25 AM | I Don't Know What To Think Hi. This is not really a problem for me, i just kinda want to clear something up
right story time  :
There is this girl in my year, and sometimes i think that she likes me (im not sure if im interested) however on other occasions i think she doesn't atall. We are really good friends. We hug all the time, we have our arms around each other quite often. These are the times i think she does. However sometimes she will totally blank me out and talk to other guys and not really ignore me, but not give me the usual attention she does when it's just the two of us, or if there is no other males (sometimes when there are other males)
I just want everyones oppinion on this issue, does she like me? does she not? so therefore i can stop being so confused  Thanks for reading
Just ask if you would like some extra info 
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11-26-2009, 01:26 AM
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Name: Danny!! Gender: Male Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Hull, UK. Posts: 744
Money: 2,597 Last Online: Today 09:40 PM My Mood: | Re: I Don't Know What To Think Simply put?
No, no she does not like you. Or that's how it seems to me.
__________________ It's not that i'm not the Romantic Type. |
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11-26-2009, 01:30 AM
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Money: 305 Last Online: Today 06:25 AM | Re: I Don't Know What To Think also maybe i should add...she says she loves me all the time, however i don't know if she means as a friend or not |
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11-27-2009, 02:21 AM
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Money: 965 Last Online: Today 07:38 PM | Re: I Don't Know What To Think Nope, she doesn't like you. You're her emotional guy that she likes spending time with. She feels safe with you and likes you as a friend, but that is all. You don't inspire any romantic feelings in her.
Not to rub it in, but it's very difficult to make the transition from that kind of friend to romance. Once a girl has categorized you into that role, you're kind of stuck there. It's very hard for her to see you as anything other than her "big, safe teddy bear." |
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11-27-2009, 02:56 AM
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Name: Thomas Gender: Male Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Latvia, Riga Posts: 51
Money: 186 Last Online: 11-28-2009 04:37 AM | Re: I Don't Know What To Think She will forget you in a year ... She will find another emotion guy who's better than you ... suggest forget about her... |
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11-27-2009, 04:06 AM
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Money: 305 Last Online: Today 06:25 AM | Re: I Don't Know What To Think i'd just like to remind everyone im not interested. Just had some worries she possible could. So now i see that problem has been resolved  |
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01-10-2010, 09:50 PM
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Money: 402 Last Online: 01-12-2010 01:27 AM | Re: I Don't Know What To Think i agree with the above comments
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01-10-2010, 09:58 PM
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Money: 305 Last Online: Today 06:25 AM | Re: I Don't Know What To Think I have to say i agreed with all of you from the start, untill about a week ago. Well yesterday, we were walking home together, and i was helping her over a bit of rough ground (i help my hand out to help her balance) and after she was over the rough ground i let go, however she held my hand again, after i let go, and we walked the rest of the way home holding hands.
Also she has started to start lying beside me or ontop of me when we are just kinda lying around on a sofa or the floor when with friends (and also alone) |
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01-10-2010, 11:30 PM
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Name: Marta Gender: Female Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 146
Money: 712 Last Online: Today 09:54 PM My Mood: | Re: I Don't Know What To Think I think you two should talk about it before it's too late. You may loose a friend... or maybe she just needs a little care and is not truly interested. idk |
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01-11-2010, 03:13 AM
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Money: 305 Last Online: Today 06:25 AM | Re: I Don't Know What To Think Thanks for that  Are there any other viewpoints?? |
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01-11-2010, 05:28 AM
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Name: Joe Gender: Male Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Illinois Posts: 146
Money: 1,946 Last Online: Today 04:20 PM My Mood: | Re: I Don't Know What To Think hmm right now i'd say its too hard to tell cuz a lot of girls do those things and when guys ask about it they say it means nothing. But I have a feeling she probably does like you. You don't have to ask about it unless you're interested, which you didn't say you were. |
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01-13-2010, 02:24 AM
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Money: 142 Last Online: 01-15-2010 02:23 AM | Re: I Don't Know What To Think Quote:
Originally Posted by iPineapple I have to say i agreed with all of you from the start, untill about a week ago. Well yesterday, we were walking home together, and i was helping her over a bit of rough ground (i help my hand out to help her balance) and after she was over the rough ground i let go, however she held my hand again, after i let go, and we walked the rest of the way home holding hands.
Also she has started to start lying beside me or ontop of me when we are just kinda lying around on a sofa or the floor when with friends (and also alone) | Sounds like the friends zone to me.
You see, she knows that she isn't going to let anything other than a friendship happen with you, and she assumes you feel the same way. So she's fine holding your hand, cuddling with you, because she assumes that nothing sexual will ever, EVER come of it. She treats you like a brother, not a lover.
I've heard of girls sleeping in the same bed as their male friends, cuddling, but of course it never leads to anything.
She feels safe around you, but she's not attracted to you. She's not interested in anything more than a friendship with you. The sooner you accept that, the better.
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01-13-2010, 02:31 AM
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Money: 88 Last Online: 01-14-2010 10:04 PM | Re: I Don't Know What To Think exact same problem here, feels crap |
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