|
|
|
Welcome to Teen Forums, an online teen forum community
where you can join over thousands of teenagers discussing things related to Teens including teen help and teen advice. You're
currently viewing the teen forums as a guest with features such as Photos, Games and Journals disabled. To gain full access to Teen Forums you must register for a free
account. As a registered member you will be able to:
-
Full forum
access including image viewing, posting and private messaging.
-
Communicate
privately with other teenagers from around the world.
-
Gain access to
our unique profile system and other social networking features.
-
Post your own
photos in our gallery or view other user submitted images.
-
Unlimited access
to Arcade Games.
-
Blogging,
writing and commenting.
All this and much
more is available to you when you
register for an account.
Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free, so
join our community today!
|
|
|
|
 |
|
08-17-2007, 04:18 AM
|
#1 (permalink)
|
|
New Member
Last Online: 08-17-2007 04:18 AM
Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 1
Money: -2,217
|
How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
So I caught my boyfriend flirting with another girl the other day... it wasnt the first time. In fact its been the one major issue in our relationship since day one.
I love him to death but I cant stand him flirting with other girls, it just drives me crazy. At first I tried asking him to stop, and when he didnt .... and kept not... despite seeing how it hurt me it ended up being an issue... since then its only gotten worse.
I dont think hes cheating, but I cant take it anymore... i want to copy the girl in the video (at the end of the post) by smashing his computer the next time I catch him flirting.
What should I do? Should I put up with it? Is there a simpler way to get him to stop?
Heres the video: youtube.com/watch?v=HMxdrKxL7kM
|
|
|
|
08-17-2007, 04:33 AM
|
#2 (permalink)
|
Last Online: 03-25-2008 01:17 AM
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 1,120
Money: -1,846
My Mood: 
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
theres nothing wrong with flirting with other people in a relationship
my parents are married and they still do it
they both know about it too
as long as hes not cheating its fine
just go up to him and flirt with him and he will do the same back
__________________
[Member of the Kind of Wierd Sexy Club]
|
|
|
|
|
08-17-2007, 04:46 AM
|
#3 (permalink)
|
|
The Awesome
Last Online: 10-02-2008 08:58 PM
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 18,855
Money: 4,838
My Mood: 
Points: 56,077, Level: 57 |
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
if its bothering you, than he should stop. It's not reall ya big deal really b/c I'm a big flirt too, but the fact that its gotten worse since you told him to stop is messed up. dump him.
|
|
|
|
|
08-17-2007, 04:49 AM
|
#4 (permalink)
|
|
TH obsessed
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 38,202
Money: 52,114
My Mood: 
Points: 103,008, Level: 78 |
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
There is and there isnt. Maybe sit down and tell him your feelings, because guys often forget how things affect women lol.
I guess theres nothing wrong with it...unless he chases after other women.
__________________
need support and advice? Come talk to me!
support leader,
|
|
|
|
|
08-17-2007, 04:53 AM
|
#5 (permalink)
|
|
New Member
Last Online: 03-27-2008 08:43 AM
Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 59
Money: -2,177
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
Hum make him put ducktape on his mouth when you are in public. rofl.
Just tell him you dont like it.
|
|
|
|
|
08-17-2007, 06:59 AM
|
#6 (permalink)
|
|
New Member
Last Online: 11-17-2007 10:12 AM
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 48
Money: -2,395
My Mood: 
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
let him catch you flirting with other guys, and let him find out just how crappy it is.
|
|
|
|
|
08-17-2007, 07:57 AM
|
#7 (permalink)
|
|
watch me move it move it
Last Online: Today 02:23 AM
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 21,395
Money: 8,202
My Mood: 
Points: 76,971, Level: 67 |
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
If I caught my boyfriend flirting with someone else, I would end it..
If they want to take the time to pay attention to other woman instead of you, leave him..
Its one thing to give a girl a compliment and another to totally hit on..
__________________
"I should tell you..." - RENT
|
|
|
|
08-17-2007, 01:43 PM
|
#8 (permalink)
|
Last Online: 11-01-2007 02:35 AM
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 1,294
Money: -2,121
My Mood: 
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
i agree
__________________
Life is too short to spend hoping that the perfectly arched eyebrow or hottest new lip shade will mask an ugly heart xx
|
|
|
|
|
08-17-2007, 04:08 PM
|
#9 (permalink)
|
|
Super Senior Member
Last Online: 09-30-2008 07:15 AM
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 1,176
Money: -1,491
My Mood: 
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
Quote:
Originally Posted by shestall
So I caught my boyfriend flirting with another girl the other day... it wasnt the first time. In fact its been the one major issue in our relationship since day one.
I love him to death but I cant stand him flirting with other girls, it just drives me crazy. At first I tried asking him to stop, and when he didnt .... and kept not... despite seeing how it hurt me it ended up being an issue... since then its only gotten worse.
I dont think hes cheating, but I cant take it anymore... i want to copy the girl in the video (at the end of the post) by smashing his computer the next time I catch him flirting.
What should I do? Should I put up with it? Is there a simpler way to get him to stop?
Heres the video: youtube.com/watch?v=HMxdrKxL7kM
|
I think you're being too controlling in your relationship.
As long as it's only flirting, I don't see how it should bother you much.
Keep talking to him about it and tell him how you feel, but don't outright ask him to stop.
__________________
Bisexual and proud.
|
|
|
|
|
08-17-2007, 04:12 PM
|
#10 (permalink)
|
|
Elite Member
Last Online: 12-09-2007 07:16 PM
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 2,232
Money: -1,870
My Mood: 
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
Kill him. That'll stop him. Although, you might get lonely.
But really, he's a guy. (I think, honestly, I don't know. I swear!)
Guys flirt.
That's the end of the story.
Dump him if you can't take that.
__________________
Linkin <3
21st April 07
|
|
|
|
|
08-17-2007, 04:13 PM
|
#11 (permalink)
|
|
Super Senior Member
Last Online: 09-30-2008 07:15 AM
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 1,176
Money: -1,491
My Mood:
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
Lmao.
__________________
Bisexual and proud.
|
|
|
|
|
08-18-2007, 04:34 PM
|
#12 (permalink)
|
|
Global Moderator
Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 18,174
Money: 60,851
My Mood:
Points: 75,862, Level: 67 |
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
Like how bad is the flirting? Is it like "Hey sexy baby, I like your breasts" or something like "Hey, how ya doing"? If it's the ladder of the two, I don't see why it's a big deal...maybe they are friends?
But if it really bothers you that much, sit him down one day and make sure you talk to him about it. Make sure he pays attention too...
__________________
24 Hr. Posting Record: 376
7 Day Posting Record: 932
30 Day Posting Record: 2,360
R.I.P. George Carlin
|
|
|
|
|
08-18-2007, 04:41 PM
|
#13 (permalink)
|
|
Super Senior Member
Last Online: 09-30-2008 07:15 AM
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 1,176
Money: -1,491
My Mood:
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
Quote:
Originally Posted by JCpatriots
Like how bad is the flirting? Is it like "Hey sexy baby, I like your breasts"
|
Lmfao.
__________________
Bisexual and proud.
|
|
|
|
|
08-18-2007, 05:56 PM
|
#14 (permalink)
|
|
Junior Member
Last Online: 02-04-2008 09:09 PM
Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 129
Money: -2,082
|
Re: How do you stop your boyfriend from flirting?
do the same thing
flirt with other boys in front of him
then he will realise
|
|
|
|
|
08-18-2007, 07:11 PM
|
#15 (permalink)
|
|
Senior Member
Last Online: Yesterday 07:26 AM
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 580
Money: 524
| | | | |
Just Phuck it! 
