Yeah of course, ya'll going to say no (or yes if you're a dick but hey you're welcome too), and I'm going to try to make as much sense here.

I've been thinking lately, about my past relationships. A girl got me thinking about em, and they've all ended up with me getting dumped. Now I know this is not the place to really be asking, considering ya'll know nothing about me or how I am, but I'm just like confused, well actually saddened at the fact that they all end this way. And I don't understand it because everything will be fine, then out of no where they'll drop me for another guy, or it seems like they jsut lose interest. Also, a few times it's happened that when trying to date a girl (and she shows interest) all of a sudden they'll go out with some other guy and I don't exist anymore. I've been told that I'm a sweet guy (all by girls who don't like me in that way ironically) and whenever I'm in a relationship, someone says that were "cute" or whatever but then again they are just being stupid. I don't think that I do anything wrong but I still don't know, seems like something is wrong.

That happens to me, too.

Poor us.

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what isnt wrong with you would be a better question. lol

Do you just have a problem with everybody?

Lmfao.

nope, people just take the things i say too seriously.

Don't randomly pick on other members, please.

Cory is here to ask advice, not to have to read through your sarcastic comments. If you have nothing useful to say, maybe keep your thoughts to yourself?

IMO, there's nothing wrong with you.

Some guys are just better as 'friends', and some guys just need to look a little bit longer and harder before they find the right girl. Don't give up looking, and don't be put down by a girl moving on. I think if someone just starts going out with another guy without an explanation to you, you should confront them. It might help you to feel better about yourself, and you'll get answers about what it is that they don't like about you.

im not picking on him, and it wasnt random... he started this thread.

Oh yeah, not your fault at ALL.

do you really think relationships are supposed to last forever? almost no "high school sweethearts" last long enough to marry, and if they do...they get divorced a few years later.

Hell..even in marriages, your chances for divorce are 50%. So how much moreso is it likely for a relationship to end without a marriage contact?

And also dude, chances are you don't make a move either. A relationship is all about risks. If you don't take any risks there is no relationship. I know this from experience. I went out with this girl for about a month and we did noting but joke and talk so she dumped me because I became too much of a friend.

which is why my advice always ends in the guy getting head, sex, or giving anal.

good advice

Yea it's weird...In your own perverted way you do give good advice...It helped me anyway.