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08-18-2007, 09:41 PM
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Do guys like it assertive or shy?
Should I be assertive when it comes to hitting on a guy that I like or wait until someone who fancies me to hit on me by himself? Which one does a guy usually prefer?
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08-18-2007, 09:42 PM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
If you're not assertive, you'll get no where in life. Speak your mind  |
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08-18-2007, 09:56 PM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
Yeah I'm with her (and I'm a guy so yeah, theres one answer for ya)
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08-18-2007, 10:06 PM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
Yeah I thought so too. Guys in class told me I am too big of a flirt and it irks them. :/
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08-18-2007, 10:15 PM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
Well whenever I hear "she is a big flirt" it means to me that she likes to flirt with everyone, not that she is too flirty with one guy, like you said you want to hit on one guy that you like so that shouldn't be a problem
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08-18-2007, 10:20 PM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
oh god. I flirt with alot of guys and I like having fun with it. Is that bad?
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08-18-2007, 10:27 PM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
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oh god. I flirt with alot of guys and I like having fun with it. Is that bad?
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Personally I think as long as you make it obvious somehow to the guy that he's the one you like, and the rest you just like flirting with for fun and its meaningless, it's fine. Later on if he has a problem with it he may bring it up, but usually I think its fine. Some times it makes the other guys jealous of him 
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08-18-2007, 10:31 PM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
haha oh and this guy I flirt with thinks he's great when I made it obvious that I am into him. He later found out from my roommate that I am into tonnes of guys besides him haha.
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08-19-2007, 12:43 AM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
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oh god. I flirt with alot of guys and I like having fun with it. Is that bad?
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..... Coupled with my very low self esteem which I always had... always wanted to look great but can't. So I guess this is a way of punishing myself... another way of self-abuse other than cutting.
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SO, you have EXTREMELY LOW self esteem but LOVE to FLIRT WITH A LOT OF GUYS.
That makes no sense to me, explain that one for me?
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08-19-2007, 12:46 AM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
i agree
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08-19-2007, 12:47 AM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
 with what? 
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08-19-2007, 12:59 AM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
with you
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08-19-2007, 01:19 AM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
woohoo! so im not totally crazy 
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08-19-2007, 08:06 AM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
Here.
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Yes I do flirt all the time but that's cause I'm longing for acceptance but in the form of going for guys. Sometimes the rejection I took made me sink lower and lower...
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08-19-2007, 02:05 PM
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Re: Do guys like it assertive or shy?
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Nope.
I agree with most things you say.
.. Or maybe that just means we're both crazy.
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