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Old 10-15-2006, 06:50 AM   #1 (permalink)
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To wait or not to wait?

I personally have a moral about not losing my virginity before I get married- call me old fashioned if you must. But most of my friends don't belive the same. Most of them have already done it. But what do all of yall think? To wait or not to wait? That is the question I ask you.
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Old 10-15-2006, 01:59 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: To wait or not to wait?

This is a question I am pretty confused about. I want to wait till marriage, my morals say so. But sometimes think what if i do it before?
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Old 10-15-2006, 04:51 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: To wait or not to wait?

well as for wat i think for myself i dont really knw if i ll do it or no but i m not rigid abt anything if i think i can do it then its k it all depends on my decision at the time wen it comes anywaz i do knw that many ppl do hav their reservations on premarital sex atleast in india and many ppl specially men like their wives to be virgins i knw its all unequality and shit but thats how it is
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Re: To wait or not to wait?

wait, it will be more special, what better gift than to give your new husband/wife yourself untouched? I dont worry so much what everyone else is doing or isn't doing, they not me. Everyone has to think and feel for themself in the end no matter what.Some people who say they do it lie, cuz if your doing it, why brag? They just think it is the excepted thing to be doing it. Crazy huh?
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Old 10-22-2006, 09:16 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: To wait or not to wait?

I have no respect for people who have sex just for the hell of it, or because everyone else is doing it. That's bullshit. Do it out of marriage, do it in marriage... just do it with someone you love. You only lose your virginity once so you may as well make it special. This is the only gift that you can give him and only him, and you never gave anyone.......physically, I mean.
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Re: To wait or not to wait?

ummm i think that u should wait..i mean just for the rite person..i think its ok to have pre martial sex but thats if ur ready and u waited for the rite person to come along....
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Re: To wait or not to wait?

well im new here, just been wandering the net for this type of forum lol

one thing that springs to my mind maybe not with you, but with the subject of pre marital sex on a whole, is if its a personal want, that is not religion etc, maybe its due to a slight insecurity of it? i mean, losing your virginity after marriage would obviously be a very safe and very secure thing, maybe pre marital poses to much of insecurities and un certanties?
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Re: To wait or not to wait?

It's entirely up to you. If you like to wait for your wedding night then that's what you should do. If your friends does not believe in that then that's their choice and you should also respect it. I do believe that women like you should be admired and followed.
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Re: To wait or not to wait?

I typically hate talking about this stuff.

But, I was always raised in an nazi religious family that forced "waiting until marriage" down my throat.

But truly, my goal was to wait until was 1. over 18 years old, and 2. graduated from high school.
I completed both of those things. And I'm glad I waited, anytime before was too young, and I wasn't about to rush into anything. Especially since the guy, now my boyfriend, and has been for awhile, didn't want to make himself exclusive with me.

Which I didn't care too much about, but I would've felt too...cheap, I suppose that's the word, if it had happened then.
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I have no respect for people who have sex just for the hell of it, or because everyone else is doing it. That's bullshit. Do it out of marriage, do it in marriage... just do it with someone you love. You only lose your virginity once so you may as well make it special. This is the only gift that you can give him and only him, and you never gave anyone.......physically, I mean.
what happens if you don't get married.
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Re: To wait or not to wait?

Dragging up old threads...
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Re: To wait or not to wait?

...which is why I'm all in the favour of closing them.
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Dragging up old threads...

Haha. I didn't really think anything of it.

I was looking through older things, and didn't think it would hurt anybody any.
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Re: To wait or not to wait?

Well dragging up a thread from someone asking for advice in 2006 does push down more up-to-date requests for help from people who need them. You could have made a new thread.
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