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Originally Posted by shannon it pisses me off when ppl go off and judge ppl for what they have done especially if they dont know that other persons life... u can get mad or whatever im jux sayin that u cant judge no1 for what they have done... |
I agree with you 100%
And teen pregnancy is NOT unavoidable in some cases like rape, will you then say ''keep your legs shut ho''?
I believe there are some people who will have sex just for the sake of having sex and wind up pregnant at a young age. That's not good.
If you know what sex is you should know what protection is and how to use it.
I'm pregnant and i'm only 15. And I wasn't stupid, it wasn't a spur of the moment thing, ''Oh lets go have sex without protection'' I didn't 'let' myself become pregnant. We used protection, we were as safe as we could be at the time.
Accidents CAN happen, and you have to deal with them and be as responsable as you can be at that age, that's what i've learned.
Teens have to take responsiblity for their actions if they get pregnant, not say 'oh i'm going to have an abortion and get rid of the problem''.
If you know you can't hadle a baby and have no support from family and friends then giving it up for adoption is the best thing to do in my opinion.
I know i'm extremely young and having a child when i'm only a child myself. I'm not an adult, but I know both me and my boyfriend need to grow up really really fast and take the time to learn the ropes of being a parent when the baby comes, and thats something we're both willing and going to do with the help of family.
Al x