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11-30-2009, 01:56 AM
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Name: Jewlia Gender: Female Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: bumfuck Florida Posts: 6,103
Money: 6,510 Last Online: Today 11:29 AM My Mood: | Do You think it's possible This is probably in the wrong section... but... DO You think it's possible to be in love with more than one person at the same time?
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11-30-2009, 02:02 AM
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Name: Tom Gender: Male Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Gloucestshire Posts: 46
Money: -1,040 Last Online: 12-01-2009 02:40 AM | Re: Do You think it's possible I dont think it is.
Its most probably just Lust, you can lust after several different people. But it wouldnt be proper "love"
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11-30-2009, 02:07 AM
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Name: Dah-Knee. Gender: Male Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Kings Town upon the river Hull. Posts: 1,169
Money: 5,395 Last Online: 06-29-2010 04:52 AM My Mood: | Re: Do You think it's possible I think 'love' can only be felt for one person at a time.
If you think you're feeling it for more than one person, then as Pvt Adventure sad - it's probably lust. |
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11-30-2009, 05:00 AM
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Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 5,851
Money: 2,760 Last Online: 09-07-2010 07:44 PM | Re: Do You think it's possible You got confused at the part where you made out that love and lust are two different things. There's a reason straight men fall in "love" with straight women you know. |
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11-30-2009, 05:46 AM
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Name: julie<3 Gender: Female Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 886
Money: 3,265 Last Online: 05-28-2010 09:46 AM My Mood: | Re: Do You think it's possible i think 'love' is the imbalance of chemicals in the fucking brain and its not selective for one person. the answer is yes and make a poll for this
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11-30-2009, 06:22 AM
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Name: JT Gender: Female Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 49
Money: 1,144 Last Online: 07-08-2010 04:40 PM My Mood: | Re: Do You think it's possible Quote:
Originally Posted by xxjulyxx i think 'love' is the imbalance of chemicals in the fucking brain and its not selective for one person. the answer is yes and make a poll for this | I second that.
When it comes down to it "love", "lust" are just abstract concepts that don't have a lot of truth. What we feel as "love" is chemicals in the brain telling our body to respond to a person in certain ways because they would be a good person to reproduce with.
Everything can be explained by biology and, truthfully, everything comes down to sex.
Have a threesome.
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11-30-2009, 07:59 AM
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Name: Kim Gender: Male Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Atlanta, Georgia Posts: 1,322
Money: 7,524 Last Online: 07-30-2010 09:28 PM My Mood: | Re: Do You think it's possible I believe what is commonly referred to as love is generally strong lust. Most of the time, anyways. I can not speak for everyone, but from what I have gathered thus far in my short lifetime more often than not two people in love are driven by lust more than anything else. |
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11-30-2009, 02:45 PM
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Name: The Peacebringer Gender: Unsure Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 4,012
Money: 3,266 Last Online: Today 10:29 AM | Re: Do You think it's possible Of course it is possible simultaneously love two people. Most of us just do not go past the social boundaries.
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11-30-2009, 03:01 PM
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Name: Jennifer Gender: Female Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Bore-Bank, California Posts: 3,226
Money: 113,464 Last Online: 04-17-2010 12:13 PM | Re: Do You think it's possible I don't really see why someone could not be in love with multiple people at the same time. I think that too many people try to define love and decide what love is. It's an emotion, there isn't an exact science to it. Everyone wants to try to define love, but really all they're deciding is what they WANT love to be, not actually what it is.
I think that true love is very different from how most people actually think of it. |
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11-30-2009, 03:17 PM
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Name: Sarah Gender: Female Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: In The House of Dissection Posts: 4,257
Money: 33,731 My Mood: | Re: Do You think it's possible :eek:
On that note.
Anyways, I know what you are talking about. Uhm. I think it is funny that you are asking this, due to the fact I have no idea who the other person is you are referring to. Hajajajaja.
Anyways. Actually, I can agree and yet somewhat disagree with every poster in this thread. I think the fact of the matter, thus being in love with two people, is actually not quite possible. The actual fact of the matter is that the reason one most likely feels as if they are in love with two people is due to incredible lust towards one and moreso actual feelings towards the other. The uncontrollable lust towards one of the said people one would be in love with could easily be confused with love due to the fact that you could see yourself happy with the said person and enjoy fucking them. However, the other person you can connect with on a more personal and emotional level, but maybe the lust for them is a bit less than the other? Idk. I may be rambling and this may not be any help at all. But that is my usual take on these kinds of situations.
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Hope that helped, sweet heart. But I am drunk as fuck.. so it may have been cryptic nonsense for all I know.
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11-30-2009, 10:23 PM
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Name: Esmo(nd) Gender: Male Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: A secure middle class environment, UKGBNI Posts: 6,660
Money: 80,949 Last Online: Today 12:02 AM | Re: Do You think it's possible I've never felt love for more than one person, but no one's in a position to say it's impossible.
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12-01-2009, 01:22 AM
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Gender: Male Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: A mile above the Sea Posts: 346
Money: 2,633 Last Online: Today 08:36 AM | Re: Do You think it's possible Of course you can love more than one person at a time, I mean you love your family (and there is more than one person in your family), you have friends that you love. Love applies to more than just the boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic.
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12-01-2009, 01:44 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Far away! Posts: 145,113
Money: 1,546,439 | Re: Do You think it's possible It obviously is, otherwise there wouldn't be cheats out there that actually love two people. |
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12-01-2009, 01:53 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Grim and frostbitten kingdoms Posts: 15,608
Money: 24,386 Last Online: Today 10:56 AM My Mood: | Re: Do You think it's possible Quote:
Originally Posted by CalifornianDream It obviously is, otherwise there wouldn't be cheats out there that actually love two people. | But is the person actually in love with both people, or is he/she just bored/no longer in love/annoyed/otherwise no longer interested in the first person so now he/she is looking for excitement elsewhere?
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12-02-2009, 02:22 AM
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Gender: Male Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 9,485
Money: 209,199 | Re: Do You think it's possible Agreed^
Just because a person has an affair or dates a person, it doesn't mean they love them.
Although I think loving two people at once is unlikely, it certainly isn't impossible. |
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