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11-04-2007, 09:33 AM
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Depressed.. Need Advice.
ok, so i've been very sad lately...
my bf broke up with me and stopped talking to me..
we started talking again and sorta lead me on and then went back out with his other ex...
so im really sad
and my parents keep bugging me and yelling at me for stupid stuff..
school is stressing me out and everytime this happens
i feel like clawing my skin off...
i just get this itch like there is something under my skin
and i want to just grab a knife and cut
i've never done it yet..
but it seems to be the best way to relieve it..
any other ideas?
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11-04-2007, 09:58 PM
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Re: Depressed.. Need Advice.
A similar situation to what i was in when my ex broke up with me. He started to lead me on and then said it was all a joke. It isnt very nice at all.
It took time with me to get out of it. Seeing a mentor helped the other half.
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11-04-2007, 10:25 PM
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Re: Depressed.. Need Advice.
he's not worth it, you'll find a man one day not a boy. Take your anger oout on something else other than yourself they say sports is a good one.
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11-04-2007, 10:37 PM
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Re: Depressed.. Need Advice.
get over him
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11-04-2007, 10:38 PM
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Re: Depressed.. Need Advice.
i'm sorry to here what you ex did to you  but try not to think about him and spend time with some close friends. Start doing stuff you love and talking with people you love and soon hopefully he'll be out of your mind forever. It is hard though and I won't underestimate how bad you'll be feeling because him but just try 
also like nicole said you need to have something that you can vent frustration, anger and any other feelings you have. Sports a good thing but journals/diarys can help. I know when I have been a little depressed in the past writing down how I was feeling was a good way to express my feelings.
good luck!
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11-04-2007, 11:03 PM
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Re: Depressed.. Need Advice.
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get over him
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That wont make her feel better.
As a matter of fact its not that easy to.
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11-04-2007, 11:07 PM
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Re: Depressed.. Need Advice.
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That wont make her feel better.
As a matter of fact its not that easy to.
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Agreed, the "get over him" comment was neither helpfull nor sympathetic.
Last edited by Tomski; 11-05-2007 at 12:21 AM.
Reason: changed 'or' to 'nor' so the post made more sense
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11-04-2007, 11:21 PM
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Re: Depressed.. Need Advice.
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Agreed, the "get over him" comment was neither helpfull or sympathetic.
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and... she'll feel better if she gets over him than she will if she keeps moaning. and kat... get over that
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11-05-2007, 12:18 AM
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Re: Depressed.. Need Advice.
Yeah, if someone told me to get over someone, id reply saying "I cant just get over them like that"
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11-05-2007, 12:28 AM
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Re: Depressed.. Need Advice.
yea well its not you
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11-05-2007, 12:46 AM
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Re: Depressed.. Need Advice.
Honestly, I think you don't deserve that all. You are worth more than the crap he's put you through. You know there's so much better than that in the world and one day you'll find a boy who makes your whole world and makes you forget about all that he's done.
Maybe try taking up a hobby.. something you like.. whatever that is and it can make you feel better. It'll be hard but just remember, things will get better eventually even if it doesn't seem like it. |
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11-05-2007, 02:49 AM
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Re: Depressed.. Need Advice.
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yea well its not you
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you shouldnt be expecting people to just take their mind off someone they loved within the matter of a night..
That just doesnt happen!
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11-05-2007, 02:57 AM
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