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07-15-2012, 09:32 PM
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#1 | | New Member
Gender: Male Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Turkey Posts: 1
Money: 240 Last Online: 11-05-2012 12:34 AM My Mood: | Lack of social life :/ Hi everybody ! I feel so depressed and lonely . I don't have social life , i have a few friends but i think they don't understand me and that's why i feel so lonely. I live in a very beautiful city and we have sea , beaches , disco and bars , so much people in this city but that can't help me . I'm looking for someone who understands me , tries to help me , talks to me , helps me at least tries these .. I don't going out i'm always at home and that makes me feel depressed I'm new in this forum and i'm here because of these reasons . I hope someone can help me what should i do ?  |
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07-16-2012, 01:56 AM
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#2 | | eval()
Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 7,969
Money: 1,820,898 Last Online: Today 01:09 AM My Mood: | Re: Lack of social life :/ The best way to combat this is the hardest: Stop staying at home! And I realize that is difficult to do, but you have to push yourself a little bit out of your comfort zone. Talk with your friends more, and try to make new ones. The only way you can fight your own loneliness is by trying to make yourself a better person.
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07-16-2012, 05:39 AM
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#3 | | Junior Member
Name: Jonathan Gender: Male Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Louisiana Posts: 153
Money: 3,933 Last Online: 03-30-2013 03:26 AM My Mood: | Re: Lack of social life :/ Look I'm kinda in your same position. I'm 17, about to be a senior. I live in a town of 17,000 people (small town). It's not that I can't be social, I choose not to be. I sit at home most of the time and play Xbox. Do I care? Hell no. Don't let being socially awkward put you into a depression forum. Hell man, if you want someone to talk to, PM me on this website. Just wait until you're in college (if you're not already in college), because once you move away from your highschool, you won't give a shit about what happened in the past.
But if you really want to socialize now: invite the few friends you do have and go chill at a park or a club. If you aren't old enough to get in, try it anyways! It makes a good story.
By the way, the fact you have only a few friends doesn't mean you're not good at making friends, you're just picky. I have only a few friends too. Mainly because I hate everybody else's fucking guts! Nothing wrong with it. Any questions just PM me. I'll be happy to talk.
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08-04-2012, 02:43 AM
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#4 | | New Member
Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 15
Money: 273 Last Online: 11-26-2012 02:28 AM My Mood: | Re: Lack of social life :/ Just know that friends are not everything. The friends you do have, cherish them, just because they don't understand you, doesn't mean they don't care. Never lose faith because I love you and so does God.  . Since you live around beaches.and things like that try to ease your mind by going down by the beaches and relaxing. It will all. Be OK  |
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08-04-2012, 04:46 AM
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#5 | | Senior Member
Gender: Male Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 746
Money: -8,334 Last Online: Yesterday 02:29 AM My Mood: | Re: Lack of social life :/ Quote:
Originally Posted by Hipster The best way to combat this is the hardest: Stop staying at home! And I realize that is difficult to do, but you have to push yourself a little bit out of your comfort zone. Talk with your friends more, and try to make new ones. The only way you can fight your own loneliness is by trying to make yourself a better person. | Fuck yourself hipster |
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08-04-2012, 04:57 AM
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#6 | | what now?
Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: The End Posts: 376
Money: 16,434 | Re: Lack of social life :/ Quote:
Originally Posted by Jeremiah Fuck yourself hipster | Hey asshole. |
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08-04-2012, 05:11 AM
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#7 | | Senior Member
Gender: Male Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 746
Money: -8,334 Last Online: Yesterday 02:29 AM My Mood: | Re: Lack of social life :/ Suck my clit |
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08-04-2012, 05:45 AM
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#8 | | Junior Member
Join Date: Aug 2010 Posts: 140
Money: 2,752 Last Online: 03-03-2013 06:02 AM My Mood: | Re: Lack of social life :/ Umm, didja ever think of getting ur butt out of the house?? Go do something youve never done before!! ik its harder than it sounds, but it will work  been there, done that! good luck!
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08-04-2012, 05:50 AM
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#9 | | New Member
Name: Call me Alex (: Gender: Female Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: No where you need to know Posts: 37
Money: 385 Last Online: 08-17-2012 05:18 AM My Mood: | Re: Lack of social life :/ Im in the same position. I always see pictures of my friends hanging together, going to the movies, mall, getting food , going to the each & etc and I just sit here in my bedroom on my computer. Yeah, it's enteraining but it also gets boring. I really expected my summer to be more fun filled but its not and it's coming to an end. So I guess I'll just have to cope with it and hope next years a better summer
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08-04-2012, 06:10 AM
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#10 | | Senior Member
Name: Logan Gender: Male Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 561
Money: 6,332 Last Online: 04-23-2013 07:53 AM My Mood: | Re: Lack of social life :/ Look man, I get what you're saying. Everybody has friends that they have fun with, but otherwise don't do much in the way of closeness. A lot of the time, you won't be able to find people like that, ever. But the only way to find out if there is someone like this is to go out, and test the waters. You won't find any friends sitting around.
Or, if there really is no one-- well, you're here. You could talk to this whole forum about your problems, if you wanted to. I'm always open if you want to talk.
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08-04-2012, 08:36 PM
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#11 | | Live well, laugh often.
Name: Hannah Gender: Female Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Essex Posts: 940
Money: 5,015 Last Online: Today 04:05 PM My Mood: | Re: Lack of social life :/ Go to the discos, bars and beaches and try find some people with common interests. Sitting indoors will get you nowhere.
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08-04-2012, 08:44 PM
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#12 | | New Member
Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 2
Money: 486 Last Online: 08-04-2012 08:55 PM | Re: Lack of social life :/ Hello, please talk to me, i want to supportyou
Im just about going through the same thing as you are. i Have friends, i can be around them, yet i can feel weired and strange around them and i dont really have a friend who sticks out like a sore thumb if i really really felt like i was in one of them timez and moments if i needed one, please reply id love to hear back.
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