09-25-2012, 07:14 AM
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: London, United Kingdom
Re: How To Cope With Loss?
I am ever so sorry for you loss. I think the main thing that you have to come to terms with is the fact that it wasn't your fault and you couldn't have done anything to stop them.
Suicide is a horrible thing and your friend must have had a lot going on to feel they needed to end their life. I myself attempted to commit suicide and i would have hated if a friend thought it was their fault. I am a strong believer that everything happens for a reason. Your friend must have served their time down on earth and fulfilled her lifes worth - God only takes the best.
Take as much time as you need, you need space to grieve over your loss. Don't busy yourself with life because then your grief will only prolong itself. If it helps, perhaps talk to a friend, family member, teacher or doctor. They could offer you more support than i can online. Just remember it isn't your fault.
I am sorry again for your loss. Try to remember all the good times you had together, keep their spirit alive - they'll be your gardian angel forever.
If you need someone to talk to please don't hesitate to PM me,
- Stay Strong -
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