why wont she reply

clairegpink · 05-12-2008, 01:04 AM

a lady was helpin me on myspace with stuff to do with suicide and self harm and now she wont reply anymore she'll be online but she wont reply. does anybody no any reason why? i had just started climnin g up that steep hill and now i feel like im falling down it again

stratosfear · 05-12-2008, 01:37 AM

Was she just a random woman or was she trying to be some kind of net councellor?

Maybe she just had lots of messages and she hasn't got round to it. Or she read the message, didn't reply right away because she had other things on her mind and forgot. I do that all the time to people, it doesn't mean anything bad.

People here can always listen if you need to talk though. :]

Nicole91 · 05-12-2008, 01:39 AM

She might have wnated to help you out in the first place, but then she couldn't be bothered with it anymore so like left you alone? if she was a randomer you didn't really have much hope anywya...post here and I bet more people can help you out

YeahWhatever · 05-12-2008, 02:56 AM

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Originally Posted by clairegpink

a lady was helpin me on myspace with stuff to do with suicide and self harm and now she wont reply anymore she'll be online but she wont reply. does anybody no any reason why? i had just started climnin g up that steep hill and now i feel like im falling down it again

It could be one of three reasons.

1) She hasn't read your last message for whatever reason.
2) She hasn't had the time/energy to respond.
3) You said something that scared or upset her too badly for her to want to stay in contact with you.

I think that it's most likely #1. Go to your sent messages and see the status of your last message. If it just says "Sent", then she hasn't read it yet.

clairegpink · 05-12-2008, 03:02 AM

it says read next to it!!!

YeahWhatever · 05-12-2008, 06:58 AM

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Originally Posted by clairegpink

it says read next to it!!!

Did you say anything offensive to her? Did you guys get into a disagreement that you can think of? Was she willing to help you or was she doing it grudgingly?

FallenAngel · 05-12-2008, 09:24 AM

Damn, it pisses me the f*** off when people read your messages and don't reply, and it's something that they know they need to reply to.

Did you argue with her or say something that could have scared her?

YeahWhatever · 05-14-2008, 04:30 AM

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Originally Posted by FallenAngel

Damn, it pisses me the f*** off when people read your messages and don't reply, and it's something that they know they need to reply to.

I AGREE.