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Old 06-07-2008, 04:50 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Feeling Bad

Recently i have been feeling depressed a lot for no reason, ive been feeling like there is no point in me living any more (i will never actually act on these feeling though), i have also cant be bothered to do a lot of things i used to do - some days i cant even be bothered to get up.
Another thing that makes me feel worse is that most of the time i cannot think of any reason why i feel like this.
Finally i cant tell any of my friends this because, firstly i dont trust most of them, secondly they are not the most caring people you will find and thirdly i dont really tend to tell people my problems.

Any help would be much apreciated
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Old 06-08-2008, 11:58 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Feeling Bad

Do you have any problems going on? if so, dude, talk to someone, or write your problems in a notebook or something, it will help you, if you keep all your problems inside, and bunched up, you WILL feel depressed, im the same way you are, i hate telling people my problems,they dont care, they only care about theirselves.... i don't even like to talk about anything going on with my life....but...i do have a friend i can talk to....Jesus....but seriously,find a friend/pen
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Re: Feeling Bad

i have talked to one friend before about problems i did have but i dont seem to think about these problems at alll any more i just seem to feel miserable and depressed all of the time
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Old 06-09-2008, 01:13 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Feeling Bad



Well, our main problem is identifying what triggers these thoughts. Next time you have the feeling or is just feeling depressed, try to remember what you were previously thinking, and try not being too afraid to share.

How do you view yourself in all honesty?
Do you feel you are attractive?
Do you consider yourself creative?
How do you view yourself?
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Re: Feeling Bad

i dont like myself at all, i hate my apearance, i definately wouldnt consider myself atractive, im not outgoing at all, i dont have that much of a social life (i go to the same place with the same 2 people and do the same thing every weekend - thats my entire social life), im not creative but then again i dont mind not being creative.

last time i felt like this was on friday, it was at the end of my GCSE ICT exam (i had loads of time to spare) i just felt miserable and depressed and then thought that there was no reason for those feelings
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Re: Feeling Bad

I feel completely the same. I don't like the way I look, I'm extremely shy, so that makes things hard, and I don't really have much of a life either.

You have to talk to someone. If you don't it will just keep getting worse, and one day you'll probably end up going through with topping yourself. I used to have an awesome life, loads of friends, and I would never even think of killing myself. A few years later though, I overdosed on a full pack of pills. Luckily I'm still here. Anyway, you have to tell someone, it will make things better, explain to them what you're going through. I didn't want to tell my dad about my depression, so I plucked up the courage and went to the doctors instead, and she booked me an appointment with this depression place thing.
If you want things to get better, you're gonna have to sort it out. Nothing will get better if you don't try.
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Re: Feeling Bad

i always write all my emotions and thoughts out when i get sad it helps! try it
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Re: Feeling Bad

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i dont like myself at all, i hate my apearance, i definately wouldnt consider myself atractive, im not outgoing at all, i dont have that much of a social life (i go to the same place with the same 2 people and do the same thing every weekend - thats my entire social life), im not creative but then again i dont mind not being creative.

last time i felt like this was on friday, it was at the end of my GCSE ICT exam (i had loads of time to spare) i just felt miserable and depressed and then thought that there was no reason for those feelings


Seems we just figured the reasoning, that is progress my brother.

Have you considered talking to your parents about this? You might not feel the need to, but I honestly feel you need to tell them and you need to start getting back to having fun in life.

Depending on certain mitigating circumstances, either psychotherapy or medication would be given, each case is different. You need to try reaching out, YOU need to be the one who WANTS to change.
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Seems we just figured the reasoning, that is progress my brother.

Have you considered talking to your parents about this? You might not feel the need to, but I honestly feel you need to tell them and you need to start getting back to having fun in life.

Depending on certain mitigating circumstances, either psychotherapy or medication would be given, each case is different. You need to try reaching out, YOU need to be the one who WANTS to change.
great post take his advice!
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Re: Feeling Bad

i dont want to sound like i dont apreciate your advice, but my parents are not the most aproachable people. i cannot remember the last time i had a conversation with my dad about anything (unless it is him sohuting at me for pathetic things) and my mum will twist everything so she is the one with the problems showing no sympathy whatsoever (this in turn would cause my dad to shout at me for making my mum upset)
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