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if u dont no who u r u need to start from skratch ... u need to try to get in touch with ur inner feeling u no instead of fighting the pain or the hurt u need to feel it u need to deal with it and wen u do then u will feel a little better u will feel like a person again .... and maybe the clubs tht ur in dont make u happy maybe ur not as into them as u used to....
u should talk about wat u like and dislike so ppl on this site could help u a little better TALK ABOUT U SOME MORE!!!!
I just do not believe it is your fault. You were a child! It was his choice to make you.
this knowledge only makes my guilt and pain centred at my life itself. I am unable to feel guilt over any action that may have caused it except the action of birth. I am in pain over my own existance. which makes it all the more painful.
But please, let us drop this subject as it is not only horribly morbid and sensative to me, it is also off topic. I hope my words have consoled you my friend. I hope you will not take your life.
Whatever you do, just DON'T KILL YOURSELF. Know that we are always here to love and help you. Besides, what's the point? There is ALWAYS hope. Killing yourself would be to take the easy way out. I believe, and do not take this the wrong way, that you are going through this to teach your soul something. Overcoming it will make you stronger.
Either you really hate your life, you have a mental disease, or a combination of both. Get a diagnosis from a professional before making any decisions.
So... I've been thinking. I've had those periods. It wasn't all the time, though.
I just have one thing to tell you. Life is a gift. Everything around you, the life you're living. Yes it could get better, but it could be worse at any given point. Imagine what it is to die... will you disappear? Will you go to heaven? You won't know until you do die. I really don't think it's better than your life right now. So in such moments I take a break form my busy, tiring life. I've learned to care less and less for the things Id on;t want to care, and after I have that break, I've gathered enough strenth to go on living and change my life into better.
You want love? That is easy, there are millions of people on earth, not all of them are assholes. Here's a piece of love for you to start off ^^ Search for it. I really hope you find it.
You are strong. You didnt turn to drugs. I have periods where I am really down and you have to get through it. It makes you stronger. I wish you the best of luck.
killing urself wont make u happy ..yes it will end the pain.. but it wont make u happy.. try and fined happyness.. just set ur mind to it thats what i had to do.. just think.. u know what nothing will get me down.. and keep thinking that even if something is getting u down..
After reading the words written in this thread, even I was touched.
Ama. even if the world does seem cold, lonely and unforgiving at times there is always hope. You said before that you are a part of a lot of clubs in college but you weren't making many friends. This is just an idea but I play football (soccer) for my local club. I have made SO many friends from the team I play in. The girls I play with are so much fun to be with. I think maybe you should take up a team sport. Even if you're not athletic give it a go. Team sports are not about how good you are individually, but about how well you work together as a team. Also I reckon playing sport does take your mind off everything for a period of time. Certainly for me it does. You just block it all out and escape once in a while. Any sport would do. Hockey, Baseball, Basketball.. I don't know. Take a chance! Try something new! If the people in your college aren't going to be your friends look out and beyond. The world is a massive place, there is someone out there waiting for you to befriend them.
xxxxx
<P>i really do understand how you feel. my life is quite similar to yours, apart from i cry more often. what i do is tell myself one more lie, that there is one friend i hav and he/she will always be there for me. when i'm really upset, my 'friend' comes and cheers me up. i know it's foolish in a way but it keeps me happy for the time i'm infront of people.</P>
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<P>take care and cheer up you'll know lifes worth living one day or another </P>
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<P>sahira x</P>