september 2007, I entered High school , (I live in quebec, so high school starts at grade 7 to 12 then you have an extra 2 years of "cegept") and a few days after I met an amazing girl, when I saw her I knew we were gonna be great friends (and of course,,I liked her).. We were amazing friends.. Then couple weeks before christmas.. She started crushing on me.. I was scared and simply said "I want us to stay friends.. is that alright?" And she replied by a "Yes ofcourse, I think its better liked that" But we stayed great friends from January to febuary 14th was smooth, then the day of valentines day, she sent me a lover card.. We didnt really talk to each other about it, we kept it between us. Then on april 27th the day we left to Toronto, everything started to happen, I started making mooves and we ended up hand in hand on top of the CN tower, It was one of the best days of my life. I asked her out and she tought about it during the long 6 hour busride back, and she came to see me and said, "Alex, I consider you as a brother, I really dont wanna loose you.. I love you alot so lets just say friends" At that time I realised I screwd up badly before christmas.. Then in June, of course my suposly "friend" Went and asked her out.. (He knew I loved her alot) And she said Yes.. since then my life has been miserable.. The only way I can make her not cry is tell her I like someone else, BUt that makes me cry almost 24/7 .. since then Ive not been eating half as much.. Im scared I just want it all to end someone please help

whats poppin playboy. ok lets help you out.
first off ur friend... thats dirty what he did, but you cant stop being friends with him just because he did this to you, and you cant blame her for what happened.
second, getting revenge on her might not be the best thing to do, honestly it can work both ways. she can either be like "shit i fucked up" or " why tha hell are you doin this to me? i hate you" so be careful with tryin to get her back or you can lose her altogether.
what i would say is (im guessing ur 13-15) go out some more buddy. like parties, or teenclubs, maybe join a new sport, or get involved in something else. their are TONS of girls out their for you and whenever you try/do something new you always meet someone new, and the next girl you meet could be your love.

so my advice ur real young man so dont even think about suicide. how would ur friend think if u did that. he would think it was his fault.
also what would she think? she would blame herself and maybe be depressed for a while and i know you dont want that for her.
last commiting suicide is a cheap way out of the situation and can often you would lose all respect from your friends for doing it. one of my close friends commitied suicide over a girl and she could barely function for a month, and i couldnt even respect him because he did it.

so my final thought is take some time... listen to some love songs at night, go out try something new, and meet some new people
good luck man

Thanks alot woodz, I will definetly try to

aiight man, jus hit me up if u need to.

You say you love her.
And I believe you. why? you told her you liked someone else so that she wouldn't cry...you damned yourself to pain for her.

Honestly though, can you really hate your friend for what he did?
Did you have claim on her? Was she your property?
No.

Look at her and see if she's happy or not.

Loving someone means that you want them to be happy, regardless of the cost. You've already shown your willing to pay a great price for that happiness. If your friend makes her happy, then you should be happy that she is happy.

However, I would make it abundantly clear to your friend the possible consequences of any inaction or action that he may do that would bring harm to her.

Humans spend too much time worring and wallowing in grief over what they do not have.

Think about what you do have.

Youn have her as a great friend, she is very close to you and considers you a brother. A bond that will never break I believe.

You have friends, family, people to count and rely on.

So is your life really that bad?

You love her. You can't have her.

You have every right to upset at such a notion. But asking whether or not you should die from this? No.

Besides...did you ever think that maybe your friend may love her too?
And if he doesn't...then it will not last.

Be thankful she is still your friend. And smile more.

(PS: Do not think you know better than me or I don't know anything, as I myself have been in such a situation. Obviously I do not know everything...and it will not be exactly the same...but I understand, and that is enough.)

Cirrax, I think you cured me ..everything you rote just made me cry so bad of how stupid I am .. I just want to thank you alot -xox-

Life is but a test of what we learn from the mistakes we make. It is our job to remember such lessons, and keep them close to our hearts at all time.

Your welcome. I am glad to have been of help.