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Old 09-28-2008, 09:54 AM   #1
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Why is my head so big!!

Man I've been going through so many different emotions lately and thinking about death almost everyday. I am turning seventeen years old in November and I feel like I failed my teenage years and I just can't take it. I have no real friends at home but a few at school. I am so insecure about myself. Its because of the size of my head, it has affected the way I have lived. I am about 5'8" and the size of my head is kinda big for my body.
I have been made fun of my entire life from elementary and middle school. It never really bothered me in elementary in middle school but it has deeply affected me through my high school years. I've been called big head a few times and it really hurts me inside. Whenever I walk through the hallways I get stares from people and I start going crazy and ask myself were they staring at me cause they noticed I had a disproportional sized head. I barely have spoken to any girls at all in high school because I'm afraid that they will think I'm a freak or something cause my head looks big.
Im afraid to go outside anymore because I always get the feeling of people staring at my head. My friends from school I don't know but its like they don't see the size of my head and haven't really made fun of me or called me big head so I feel comfortable around them but when I walk by myself in the hallways I feel like everyone is looking at me all the time.
I get depressed everyday because I look at everyone else and everyone looks so normal and I'm the only one with the biggest head. If I didn't have freaking macrocephaly or disproportionalized size head I would be more confident in myself but I just don't. I was thinking maybe I could hide the size of my head by growing out my hair but I think it will just make my head look even bigger,
Ever since high school I have been thinking suicide, and the past couple weeks I have been thinking about suicide even more but I just can't do it because I love my family too much and I don't want to leave them. My little brother is probably the only person that has prevented me from commiting suicide because I love him too much to leave him. The only reason I continue to live is because of him, but its so hard when your lonely and depressed.
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who gives a shit if ur head is big? i have one of the biggest noses in the world, i dont give a shit, just have high self confidence
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who gives a shit if ur head is big? i have one of the biggest noses in the world, i dont give a shit, just have high self confidence
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who gives a shit if ur head is big? i have one of the biggest noses in the world, i dont give a shit, just have high self confidence
Having a big nose is a lot more common than having a big head.

And it's not as easy as just saying "have better self confidence."
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Having a big nose is a lot more common than having a big head.

And it's not as easy as just saying "have better self confidence."
thx for letting him know......
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Re: Why is my head so big!!

Hi there. I understand it can't be very nice being told that all the time, especially with it being a big problem to you. People should realize you're born the way you are and it cannot be changed. I fear of going out the house myself a lot, i know its a completely different problem but i know how it feels not wanting to go out the house because you're afraid what people will say. And the truth is these idiotic ones that do this to us can actually make us believe something is wrong about us just to put us down, you know? It's quite a difficult problem to solve, but you most likely need someone to talk to, to help you through how you feel etc.
I'd be more than happy to listen to you if you need to talk? Pm me or something
I will try my best to help you feel more confident, i know it isnt easy, but you will begin to feel more secure eventually, it just requires a bit of help and support.




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Re: Why is my head so big!!

I was searching through Google and found a website blog full of comments about people who also have the same flaw as me here
pauldavidson.net/2004/11/23/my-head-is-huge/
and it has made me feel a little better knowing I am not the only one who has this problem and there are other people out there.
I swear if I just looked a little more normal I would be way more confident and do things I am to shy to do but I just can't. The only places I feel comfortable are at home and on the baseball field. I play shortstop for my high school varsity baseball team and I feel really comfortable during practices and games because everyone respects me because they know I'm really good. I also think wearing hat makes my head look a little smaller. But anywhere else I think when people see me the first thing they think is "whoa his head is kinda big".
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people are trying to support you here too
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Re: Why is my head so big!!

Your head is big huh?

I know a couple of people with the same problem I think, they have strangely shaped heads but that doesn't set them back at all.

Appearance isn't everything, as long as people see you that's all that should matter.

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Re: Why is my head so big!!

I have a little list I keep of physical and, erm, I guess you could say mental (like negative self talk) problems I have. Having a big head is a hard thing to deal with for me too. I get made fun of for it as well, seriously, I pretty much hate my body overall, but I've noticed that if I ignore it even when people bring it up (like saying "yeah, and you have a tiny head! Whose setting standards of head size anyway?" in a playful way, as to not insult them but to maybe turn it into a joke?), it seems to be less of a big deal. Its like if you act as if its not a problem ,it really isnt. And I know its sooo hard to do, to motivate yourself and keep at it, keep PLOWING, thats the word I use... PLOW, PLOW, PLOW! Sometimes the only way to get through problems and insecurities is to plow through them and keep STRONG. Very strong! I hope this can help you at least with this too.
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You should make fun of it too. If they tease you about your big head, tell them, would you like to see my other big head? And grab your cock. Just calm down and forget those death thoughts. And post a picture of yourself, maybe you are over reacting.
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You should make fun of it too. If they tease you about your big head, tell them, would you like to see my other big head? And grab your cock. Just calm down and forget those death thoughts. And post a picture of yourself, maybe you are over reacting.
I don't really feel comfortable posting a picture of myself on the net maybe I will, but I'm definately not over reacting. When I look at myself I can definately see why people see that my head is big and what makes it worse is that Im really skinny and short 5'8". I look like a walking lollipop. Maybe if I was taller it my head would look more proportional, also Ive always had short hair all my life but I was thinking if I grow my hair really long it could kinda hide the size of my head.
I don't really know why my head is so big I mean I couldn't have inherited it because my mom's head is small and I was looking at pictures of my dad, he died when I was 4, and his head seemed proportional and not big. I have heard though about my mom telling me when I was a child, I had many incidents where I fell of really high places like she told me one time when I was 2 or 3 years old still living in my country, I was standing at the top of a set of stairs, and one of the people watching me freaked out and screamed because I wasn't suppose to be there and when she freaked out, it caused me to jump and I fell down the stairs and maybe landed on my head. She also told me one time that a person was holding me when I was a baby and dropped me on my head. I know, I had bad babysitters but my parents worked hard everyday and I mean everyday so we could have food on the table everyday back then, we were very poor so they had to leave me with I guess unreliable babysitters.
Maybe these incidents did it, like caused my head to become big I don't know I'm just guessing.
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I don't really feel comfortable posting a picture of myself on the net maybe I will, but I'm definately not over reacting. When I look at myself I can definately see why people see that my head is big and what makes it worse is that Im really skinny and short 5'8". I look like a walking lollipop. Maybe if I was taller it my head would look more proportional, also Ive always had short hair all my life but I was thinking if I grow my hair really long it could kinda hide the size of my head.
I don't really know why my head is so big I mean I couldn't have inherited it because my mom's head is small and I was looking at pictures of my dad, he died when I was 4, and his head seemed proportional and not big. I have heard though about my mom telling me when I was a child, I had many incidents where I fell of really high places like she told me one time when I was 2 or 3 years old still living in my country, I was standing at the top of a set of stairs, and one of the people watching me freaked out and screamed because I wasn't suppose to be there and when she freaked out, it caused me to jump and I fell down the stairs and maybe landed on my head. She also told me one time that a person was holding me when I was a baby and dropped me on my head. I know, I had bad babysitters but my parents worked hard everyday and I mean everyday so we could have food on the table everyday back then, we were very poor so they had to leave me with I guess unreliable babysitters.
Maybe these incidents did it, like caused my head to become big I don't know I'm just guessing.
Drops on the head can't cause you to have a big head. I doubt that. It can cause you to have seizures, but not have a big head. But you should let your hair grow. Definitely.
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Re: Why is my head so big!!

you...want to kill yourself cuz u have a big head? you DO know that means that you're smarter than everyone else...or you have more memory capability than anyone else?
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