Okay SO I used to love weed and would smoke it a lot with my friends, i was mainly a social smoker, never did it alone.

So I recently realized that its just stupid. My highs weren't even that good, and when they were, they were SO trippy i couldnt do shit. I only liked to get a little high ( the type of buzz you get from 1 or 2 hits of some good shit, maybe just finish a cherry or 2)

That's the kind of high I would like, but I would always seem to do more than I wanted to. So I officially stopped about 2 weeks ago.

SO the problem is I have this really good friend and she was always wanting to get high with me because she never has, and I was dying to get high with her too because I love her shes awesome.

And now that I stopped, she just asked me earlier if I want to get high with her soon and I honestly dont know. Ive always wanted to get high with her because shes amazing and it will be fun, but I dont really like my high and Im trying to stop.

Any ideas on what I should do? Im kinda leaning towards doing it just because I like this girl so much, but then it feels like im being pressured into starting again.

Advice please?

PS dont come in here saying 'DRUGS ARE BAD DONT DO IT'
because that won't help shit. give me helpful advice that I can think about.

Thanks.

I sympathise with your situation. Remember its 2 lives your thinking of.
Your situation:
If you do get high:
You will have a good - great time. However to do this will mean you've started your smoking again.
You could make this a one off and stop again straight after. But how strong is your self restraint? Will you be able to say that and stop, or will you say after every joint that was my last one.
IF you don't get high:
Your freind, if she is a real freind will understand, but may feel a bit stupid, so might become a bit distant, so a bit of a blow to your relationship.
Then again you don't break your vow.

If She gets high:
She will probably have an amazing time.But it might ruin her life
If She doesnt get hight:
She won't have a good time. But she still might try drugs and ask someone else, who might be a less than favourable character, and she could fall into bigger trouble.

What I say is, don't fool yourself, if you think you can give up again afterwards then smoke with her. Yet if you don't (and be honest with yourself). Get drugs for her and let her get high, but with you supervising. That way she gets her high, without falling into bad company, and you don't start smoking again.

Hope it helpt

Thanks for the advice and after letting the situation sit and allow myself to think about it...
Ive been feeling an urge to have weed again. I just want to smoke some weed and forget about everything that's troubling me.

What should I do ahhhh
I have the strongest urge to go buy some and smoke it even if Im alone which I never do, why do I have such an urge

Don't tale my word as gospel, but this is my interpretation. Firstly what happened with that girl, has anything happened yet? Also how long have you been since you last smoked?
It sounds like your gettting withdrawl symptoms, you remember the good times you've had with weed and now lifes getting you down so you want to use it to escape.
The honest answer is you can't do that, I may be liberal in my views about drugs, but you cant use them as an escape. You won't be solving whatever's getting you down you will simply be covering it up for 5 minutes, if you carry on with that, thats how you become properly addicted.

dude just light up with her if its only been 2 week theres a good chance its still in u anyways so ur not really clean yet.
just go for it and stop when itll be less of a headache.

I Agree