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Old 10-30-2011, 07:32 AM   #1
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I fuckin hate my mom

God my mom is such a bitch. She won't stop bitching, whinning and screaming about the dumbest of crap! I swear is she on her fuckin period or is she mental! Because she would be happy and nice and then with a snap BOOM!!! Instant rage mode! Like today: I was playing my xbox then she comes in with new glasses, and asks what do i think, I tell her that they kinda look like the glasses my math teacher has, so then i start chuckling and she gets angry and tells me in spanish: "Ok well go play your stupid piece of shit games" and walks away angry.

Im a pretty good student I never play on the weekdays (unless early realease or teacher planning day is tomarrow) and I play on the weekends because those are like my days off, and when ever she sees me playing she gets insta pissed off and constantly bitches about how I never do anything productive and how all i do is spend my time playing when in reality i play for like 2 hours. Its fuckin insane, she is such a bitch! My grades are As and Bs and maybe 1 C, but its a fuckin nightmare whenever i get my report card and there are Bs and Cs there. She gets angry and even throws stuff at me and hits me for no reason whatsoever with anything she can find! I fuckin hate it she has a SERIOUS anger problem.

She even insults my friends because their online when i play xbox but acts all nice and polite when their around. Also whenever she is sad I have to comfort her! But in reality i just want to scream: "YOU DEASERVE IT YOU FAT-ASS STUCK UP PIECE OF SHIT!!" But im afraid most of the time cause she hits me and I can't do anything about it. She also once told me: "You have NO rights!" WTF is my life a dictatorship now, is she a fuckin dictator!

She screams at me for the smallest of shit, she nevers says sorry whenever she accidentally hits me (EVEN WHEN SHE KNOWS SHE DID IT), She never takes into acustom about how hard highschool really is, and she braggs about how she was an "Excellent Student" and got all As on her report card (Which is ironic because she is a fuckin idiot)! I FUCKIN DOUBT IT!! I WANNA FUCKIN SEE THOSE REPORT CARDS! Did i mention she can't take jokes! Whenever i make a joke she gets SUPER mad for no reason, whenever i make a joke everone else could be laughing but she would be angry.

I am an artist and I create things and I make my costume each halloween, so whenever im working on something or if I like something she'd call everything I like or working on (in spanish) "Garbage" I fuckin hate that! I tell her over and over to stop calling everything i like "Garbage" but she continually tell me "It is garbage" She tells me that i'm lazy, but in reality HER STUPID ASS STAYS UP UNTIL FUCKIN 12:00 WATCHING STUPID AS SHIT SOAPOPERAS! Its soo annoying, also whenever im near her she just gets angrier x2 all of a sudden.

So she can say whatever the hell she wants and I have no say on ANYTHING! Also she expects me to be FUCKING Einstein! GOD I HATE HER SOO MUCH!! She expects me to have STRAIGHT As she tells me: "Bs are not acceptable!" I can't fuckin wait to tell her the exact same thing when she goes to classes and gets Bs. She makes me angy everytime we talk, we argue every day and she dosn't know when to SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!! I just wish i could sew her lips together so she could just SHUT UP!!! I swear when Im out of high school and im 18, im just gonna leave without a trace and NEVER talk to her ever again. The rest of my family is fine and not so uptight (even my stepdad, but he never intervienes whenever we fight even when he knows its about some stupid shit she makes up just so i look bad!) They are fine, my mom is just the problem.

Sorry if this is extremely long, im just pissed off, because me and my mom had ANOTHER fight... god sometimes I wish i can stab her with an xacto knife but I just can't....
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Re: I fuckin hate my mom

Well obviously you and your mom have some serious issues. There's always three sides of an argument. Your side, her side and the right side. But I've only heard your side, so I'm going to assume what's in the middle and call that about what is really going on. Not to say you're not telling the truth, but there may be some things on her side of the issue that contributes to the way she acts. Like for example, some kids see "hitting" as something completely different than really HITTING someone. I doubt that you're confusing that here, but that's just something that comes to mind. I'm just mentioning it so that you think about the little things she may say or do that get on your nerves.

Firstly, it's not uncommon for parents to be on there kids for good grades. I got all As and Bs ONCE when I was in 7th grade, and now Cs are like Fs. Personally, I block that out and give myself my personal goals, and if I meet them I'm okay with it, and if my parents aren't (I allow myself at most two Cs) then I deal with their yelling or lecture and I move on. If your mom is really on you though, and you say it's out of hand (and hitting and throwing stuff at you is way out of hand) then it may be time to speak to someone about it. Now, at first I was going to suggest your father, or in this case step father, but if he's already not doing anything about this and aware of it then there's a second option for you. Would you consider speaking to a school counselor? I know, not the favorite choice of most teens, but it's a very good option when it comes to parents and grades, and even when you put them together. If you don't want too much trouble, like with the law and stuff to get involved, you don't have to mention your mom hitting you (though I suggest you get that taken care of) and just mention that she over reacts, and if you're telling the truth about good grades and stuff, your counselor will see that and give you suggestions on how to talk to your mom.

Now, from what you said I can already see talking to your mom is not the easiest task in the world. So perhaps you can have your counselor talk to your mom for you. Like a phone call by your request informing her that the school is pleased with your grades and that you're doing well. Maybe even suggest having your teachers email monthly reports to your mom on your progress. You can talk to your teachers and explain to them the "problems you've been having with your mom and how she's been on you for grades, and you'd just appreciate it if they could give her an email every bi semester or so regarding your progress." Something like that.

As for your projects and stuff being called garbage, that can be rough. My best friend does creative stuff like that, and he takes it hard when people dis his projects. Could you talk to her about that? or maybe even your step dad? If not, show things to your friends and see what they think. I highly doubt that your stuff is garbage. Show it off and get some positive reactions to it. It won't erase what she says about your projects, but positive enforcement never hurt anyone. you can show it here too in the creativity section

As for the dictatorship. Well, when your a teenager sadly life is a dictatorship. You have no rights. Sucks huh? The best you can do with that one is go to your mom. Or maybe your school counselor might have some suggestions for how you can approach it as well. But for me, I'd just sit down and talk with my mom and explain how you've been feeling about how you have no say in things and how she treats you. Again, I can tell she's not the easiest person to talk to, but talking to her first, is a must before going to someone else. You have to exhaust your easiest options before going to someone else, or else they're going to tell you to do the same thing. It's like a protocol that you have to take. If you skip a step everyone is going to say "well did you talk to her?" "No." "Well then you didn't try. You could have done that."

If you don't want to go to a school counselor, try your step dad, another member of the family, or even just a teacher that you think would understand. If you go to a school counselor and talk about everything, they may even suggest a family counselor for you and your mom to see to get things calmed down. You might even want to suggest it. I have one, and it's changed the relationship with me and my parents to make things more fair I'd say. Adults work better adult to adult for some reason. They feel teens won't understand, they'll blow everything out of proportion and that they're wrong. So, get an adult to see where you're coming from, confirm that you're right that this is unfair, and let them speak on your behalf. Give it a try.
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Short tempered mom eh..........Gud luck D:
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Old 11-03-2011, 06:37 PM   #4
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deep down u love her i hope
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Old 12-21-2011, 05:06 PM   #5
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Re: I fuckin hate my mom

Hi again campvoorhes231 I will try my best to help out and make things better for you.

My point of view

Firstly your mom is being extremely mean to you and you do not deserve that you deserve much better considering the fact that you are a great student and are trying very hard to maintain your grades that is not fair. When your mom came into your room and showed you the glasses and you laughed at her she should have released that you were mucking around. I am dead serious about this you do have rights even if you are not a fully grown adult and if your mum is throwing things around and doing it at you that is classed as child abuse and you need to call child protection services and the police for further help. Also your mum cannot expect you to be like einstein no one is perfect as long as you are trying your best she should be proud of you, I am sure she didn't make straight 'A's all throughout high school, she is probably just saying that so she has something to complain about and 'B's are acceptable grades they are above average even 'C's are acceptable.

What to do

If possible try to have a mature adult conversation with your mom when she is in a good mood and calmly express all of your concerns to her. Tell her that you are trying your very best in high school and that is is not easy also ask her how she would feel if she did not make perfect grades and was called the things she calls you.

Whenever you study at home try doing it where she can see you this will show her that you are really trying. After doing this try to help out a lot more around the house with household chores this will show her that you respect her and she might lay off a bit.

This is all the advice I can give you I hope things get better for you.
Best of luck!
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Old 12-23-2011, 11:04 PM   #6
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Firstly dont talk like that to your mom.
and iam agree with thebedman5.
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Old 12-31-2011, 02:36 AM   #7
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Aw, I know how you feel. This worked for me so maybe you could try it. Write a note to her explaining how you feel, keep it classy, and then give it to her. I often do it this way because when I try to talk to my mom, she never listens, so this is a better way to work it out.
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