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So I have a friend by the name of Deseree, and so far for the last 3 years, we've been really good friends.
A wee bit of her background is that Deseree's a little empowering. She's under the whole high school influence of being so "comfortable" with everyone. Popular, if you must. While she's very much a talker, I'm more of the listener.
So a couple of weeks ago, we planned to go to the homecoming game together. We decided on shirts to decorate and wear, and everything. Since we seemed so sure, we stopped talking about the subject. On the day of the game, I ask her what'll happen that night, and she replies so casually, "Oh, I'm not going." As though she simply neglected to let me know, and as though she expected that there's no way I would go without her. I proved her wrong, and enjoyed the game with some other friends.
However, I didn't think too much on it. I simply thought, 'Alright, emergency change of plans -- It happens to everybody.' But when she fronted her friend, Lianna, about not having have told her that she'll be unable to go to the homecoming DANCE with her, she really let Lianna have it during lunch and in front of everyone. So afterward, as I thought about it, I confronted her and simply said, "Don't be so harsh, because you did the same to me." She replied that it doesn't count because the day before the game, she was telling this girl, Mina (someone I barely, barely know), that she wouldn't be going to the game, and she argued that she did so when I was around and that it only showed that I don't listen to her.
Ummm. I'm sorry. Next time, I'll take the liberty of listening in on your conversations, and living up to your expectat-- Heck no.
What makes it worse is that she texted me afterschool, saying, "Nothing's okay with us anymore."
Simply, wow... I don't know what I did that was so wrong as to have recieved that much.
i've been thro something like rhis only with my best friend/cusin she kinda left me for other friends and i as realy up set and mad and every thing but now im over it we realy dont talk anymore it makes me sad but i tryed to talk to her and she didnt respond... i just found a way better friend not on perpuse when i see her i say hi hows ur day or wats up ... but i am ok with it it made me really depressed but im ok with it now i still see her and i still talk to her a little bit somethings still make me soo sad but i can't help it
i say let her cool down and if she wants 10 friend over 1 good one then thats her problem not ur find someone new
Who could be bothered with someone like that?
Those kind of people are pains, and if they don't get their way all hell breaks loose. And even though she did the same thing to you, becuase she's "popular" she will expect you to fall at her feet, which, I would hope you didn't because that just destoys the principle of being friends!
GOOD LUCK, I hope it works out so that you're all happy again.
__________________ " The More You Learn, The Dumber You Realise You Are"
Wow. If I had a friend like that, I'd surely let her know what her attitude is. Leave her because she's probably not someone you could trust again. Because, yes, she's caught up in all the crap that high school has to offer. What could you possibly benefit from this friendship?
__________________ "The funny thing is, nobody ever really knows how much anybody else is hurting. We could be standing next to someone who is completely broken, and we wouldn't even know."
I would really love to abide with your opinions and ideas, However... It's high school. She and I are in the same group, and I just... I'm not too sure how to stray from our little circle and all of a sudden be so comfortable somewhere else. I'm not sure where I'll be so welcome Without others going, "Wth's that girl doin' here."
:[ I feel stuck, and very much unhappy.
But I thank you all so much!
AssasinROW, you commented thrice! You crazy fool. Being so concerned - or at least seeming it? - is all too sweet and only embarrases me.
Hahah, but thank you. For even bothering to read, much more comment. :]
Ugh. High school drama... Go figure.
OR I SHALL CYBERSTAB YOU! 
it makes me sad but i tryed to talk to her and she didnt respond... i just found a way better friend not on perpuse when i see her i say hi hows ur day or wats up ... but i am ok with it it made me really depressed but im ok with it now i still see her and i still talk to her a little bit somethings still make me soo sad but i can't help it 
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