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Old 11-09-2007, 05:23 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy what to do when my sister gets mean?

k me and my sister got in a fight to day it was over something really stupid but u know how sublings are well i thro some thing at the door in the hallway were she was veryly out of ( if i wanted to hit her i would have) she came back and threw it at me only twice as hard ( i'm a person that doesnt bruse easly) and now i have a bruse....

she is mean all the time like she got mad b/c i didnt ant to watch too movies in a row but i watched them anyways but she took a nap (and left me with my 6 year old sister) about half way thro the second movie she does this stuff all the time and then calls me a jerk and i cant take much more


i cant take much more of anything in life ................ i dont want to kill myself but sometimes i just think it woukd be easier
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Old 11-09-2007, 07:19 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: what to do when my sister gets mean?

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k me and my sister got in a fight to day it was over something really stupid but u know how sublings are well i thro some thing at the door in the hallway were she was veryly out of ( if i wanted to hit her i would have) she came back and threw it at me only twice as hard ( i'm a person that doesnt bruse easly) and now i have a bruse....

she is mean all the time like she got mad b/c i didnt ant to watch too movies in a row but i watched them anyways but she took a nap (and left me with my 6 year old sister) about half way thro the second movie she does this stuff all the time and then calls me a jerk and i cant take much more


i cant take much more of anything in life ................ i dont want to kill myself but sometimes i just think it woukd be easier

You don't have to take anything from your sister, you know.
Quietly shutting her out of your life is one option, but I don't recommend it.
Have you tried talking to her when nothing is an issue?
I mean like... go to her a while after she does something you don't like and kindly, nonjudgementally explain to her why you're upset?
If you try this while you're angry and while there's an issue, it will usually just turn into a verbal war.
Nothing is easy about going to her afterward either, but even if it's tough, it beats bitterness and resentment to a pulp.
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Re: what to do when my sister gets mean?

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You don't have to take anything from your sister, you know.
Quietly shutting her out of your life is one option, but I don't recommend it.
Have you tried talking to her when nothing is an issue?
I mean like... go to her a while after she does something you don't like and kindly, nonjudgementally explain to her why you're upset?
If you try this while you're angry and while there's an issue, it will usually just turn into a verbal war.
Nothing is easy about going to her afterward either, but even if it's tough, it beats bitterness and resentment to a pulp.









my sister will blowup at me while im joking around about t.v. or something



tho me and my sis are better now it still hurts
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Re: what to do when my sister gets mean?

i think if you are just kind to her. you can take kind of the responsibility off your shoulders. because like if she cant see how great you are to her then its her problem. eventually you will make peace even if it mean not talking for a while.

try keep out of her hair and just treat yourself to a FABULOUS bubbly bath

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Re: what to do when my sister gets mean?

1. learn to spell properly
2. It's just what sisters do fight- i used to have verbal fights and sometimes physical with my sister too when she was doing her a-levels and stayed on the computer until about 1 every night and i couldn't sleep, i also have a friend who has a sister in the year below us and they fight all the time over stupid things
3. you'll both grow up eventually or the other one will and you'll get on, take my sister for example whenever she comes back home i love going shopping with her or telling my problems to her but a couple of years back i couldn't stand her!
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Re: what to do when my sister gets mean?

Seriously, it's normal.

And please don't ever say you want to kill yourself over something as trivial as this. I have 3 sisters and 2 brothers, four of them younger and one older, so I have it like 4-5 times worse.

They will drive you crazy and make you feel like complete shite, but that's what they're there for, I don't know how many bones I broken or bruises/cuts that I've got for them or from them but I would not give any of it away, they're there for life, (unless you go loco and kill them) So learn to deal with it or ignore them
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