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Old 11-09-2007, 07:49 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Arrow My "best" friend

I have a friends, we used to be the best of the best, unserperable. But, i dunno, sometimes we have our falling out periods, but their limited.

Ok, a bit of background, he's gay. More femine than I.

Well, he's been getting on my nerves quite a bit lately. More than usual. You see Matt, my best friend, is a bit of a drama queen. A diva if you will. I wonder if he sometimes thinks of himself as a gift from God, who he thinks is female because his bizare "beliefs" will get him noticed. Yes...he's the type to say and do things because he wants attention. What's been bothering me about him, is that he plays it off like he's better than everyone else.

For example, we both got photoshop around the same time. For those who have used the program, you know it's no walk in the park. Well, i was really happy that i learned something new with it, and i was pretty proud of the result, so i sent him the picture. His response was, "That's okay, but it could be alot better." That hurt me, because then he tried to say he could do so much better...in a polite way.

It's not just me, but he does it to everyone. I want to smack him sometimes.

I want to say something to him, but i don't want to ruin everything.

What should i do?
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Old 11-09-2007, 07:53 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: My "best" friend

Just straight out tell him. That he is putting you down to make himself look better. And that is not what friends are for. If he flips out and accuses you of something then he probably wasn't a friend to begin with. Maybe he saw you as a person that he could compare himself to and know that you wouldn't say shit back. STICK UP FOR YOURSELF. See what he does, if you start saying shit back I'm sure he will back off.
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Re: My "best" friend

I'm sorry, first of all. Second of all, I can't really offer much advice, because my best friend's doing pretty much the exact same thing.

Good luck though!
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Re: My "best" friend

just let him kno you are a bit pissed off with him. and well if you are best friends he should be EXTRA nice to you. so i think if he isnt after you have had words you should try and hang around with a few other people and give him time to miss you so he tries a little harder

if he doesnt miss you he cant be that greater friend. and its up to you weither to stick it out with him.

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Re: My "best" friend

Well it ain't jz a problem wif only u both but whole buncha ppl.Mayb sb can't bear him anymore n wud get his ass on the ground.Talk to him seriously,he will learn from tat if he still cares 'bout the friendship wif u.
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Well it ain't jz a problem wif only u both but whole buncha ppl.Mayb sb can't bear him anymore n wud get his ass on the ground.Talk to him seriously,he will learn from tat if he still cares 'bout the friendship wif u.
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yea u should just tell him straight up how u feel.
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but don't be brutal...be gentle and understand about it so that he could maybe understand without throwing a hissy fit
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Wow...um....what?
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