Help!

duckeroo · 11-16-2007, 11:08 AM

ok wel my friend and i have been friends for about 5 years and we never fought until we started high school this year and just recently things ahve been crazy......then she started going otuw tih this guy...who i hate! and all but thats besides that point shes ditches me for him and shes telling him thats she loves him and that he is her whole world and they have just been dating for 3 days! i just feel left out and all.....idk wut i should do? help plez!

TheFunkyBunch · 11-16-2007, 11:53 AM

Let her make her little jump of the gun relationship try to work. In my experience, people who say I love you after 3 days have no clue what they're doing and are just looking for acceptance. Any kind will do. Let her ditch you and be completely rude, run off with her boyfriend and act like you don't exist. Stay out of her business. But when she gets bounced and comes to you crying, then you decide what you wanna do: Say you don't wanna hear it, she made her bed, lie in it or be there for here despite your non acceptance of her idiocy.

Phuck Buddy · 11-16-2007, 09:46 PM

when she gets dumped she'll come back to you...but that might be a while. you should try to make a new friend. You can't tell her who to date and who not to date, so you just gotta do your own thing when she ditches with other peeople

Nicole91 · 11-16-2007, 10:10 PM

love after 3 days? bit rare to find...

i don't reckon she loves him she just loves the idea of him

get new friends, if you've just started this year then that's an excuse to

Phuck Buddy · 11-16-2007, 10:48 PM

its lust...not love...or love of the relationship...not him

x.VampireSaliva · 11-19-2007, 07:58 AM

Just let her date him for awhile and it won't work out very well I can assure you. She's being extremely short-minded and easily led on and giving in too easily to this guy who she's only dated for three days. She will eventually come running back to you when the relationship doesn't work.
Don't let her take advantage of you though. If you feel she will take advantage of you when she comes to you for advice or help, you can help her if you want but not if she's only taking advantage of you.