Hugs

indifferentx5590 · 11-25-2007, 03:40 AM

just go up to them and give them a hug. most people don't bite...

tessa_s212 · 11-25-2007, 06:37 AM

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Originally Posted by kat1990

Is it stupid to ask someone you know well for a hug?
I love hugs but am always scared of asking for one.
I love giving and receiving hugs, especially from people i know well.
I find them great tbh.
Butthe question is, does it harm to ask?

Someone recently asked me if i needed a hug, i would have said yes but i didnt dare. I often feel i need them, they perk me up a bit.
If the person is ok with hugging aswell, do you think its better to ask or not ask?

Man, I used to be terrified of hugs. Recieving and giving. Now I give hugs. IT was really really weird at first, but not too long ago I actually went up to my adopted grandma(my friend's grandma who is going to take me in when I'm 18) and gave her a hug. Didn't ask, just kind of toook it..but she didn't mind.

I don't see why it would hurt to ask.

Just be prepared that not everyone likes or feels comfortable hugging. I used to turn down a lot of requests for hugs, and if not requested and just hugged, I'd flinch and just stand there, not hugging back until they would let go.

Kat · 11-25-2007, 06:43 AM

I was the same!!

Yeah, but its not hard to tell whether that person likes them or not.
Infact some of the people im close to mention hugs and how they feel about them and they seem very comfortablewith them.Alot of people are absolutely fine unles theyre easilyembarrased like i was.

Tomski · 11-25-2007, 07:40 AM

My friend's and I hug all the time.
I don't see anything stupid with asking for a hug

Phuck Buddy · 11-25-2007, 11:37 PM

I dont think there's anything wrong with hugs....just don't be the girl that always has to hug someone. I mean if you do it once in a while with a few close friends, that's cool...but don't start hugging them every time you see them and every time you leave...that's a littl creepy

Kat · 11-25-2007, 11:38 PM

Oh hugging friends when you see them each time DEFINITELY isnt creepy.
Its a beautiful way of showing them you love them, just like your partner. Accept as a friend.

Tomski · 11-25-2007, 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Phuck Buddy

but don't start hugging them every time you see them and every time you leave...that's a littl creepy

You know in mainland Europe people kiss each other on both cheeks when they go and see each other. I say mainland because we usually just hug in England ^^

RainbowFever · 11-25-2007, 11:55 PM

hugs Make The World Go 'round.
Never Ever Be Afraid To Ask Someone For A Hug. :}

Yaaay

Kat · 11-26-2007, 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by tomski

You know in mainland Europe people kiss each other on both cheeks when they go and see each other. I say mainland because we usually just hug in England ^^

Yes i believe they do do that in europe.
But i dont see why people in Great Britain couldnt either.

Eludex · 11-26-2007, 06:15 PM

I think we need more hugs in this world lol. Nothing wrong with them..

Jarred · 11-26-2007, 06:28 PM

a perfect example of gettin hugs

YouTube - Sick Puppies - all the same ( free hugs)

all the same - Sick Puppies