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Apparently she still talks to my ex. Every time I tell her about something my ex did that hurt me(ie called me a name, did something stupid, flirting with me), she basically just tells me to take it.
For example, one day I come into school upset. I tell her that the night before he said my mother should be killed, and he insulted me for another 30 minutes. After I tell her what he said, she just shrugs it off and tells me to forgive him and take it or ignore him(which I couldn't do at the time because he had some stuff of mine).
She doesn't even know he's threatened me(that matter is getting taken care of). I can't tell her, because she tells me to suck it up and take his abuse, or to ignore it and not worry about it.
Even her boyfriend is ganging up on me.
All my other friends, even people I barely know, want to kick his ass. I don't expect her to hate him, but it seems like no matter what horrible thing he does it's okay.
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In my opinion she doesn't seem like a friend. Stop being her friend if she is going to act like that or just quit telling her the things he says. You have other friends who actually care about you and what he says to you.
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Seems to me that she's taking his side in thw whole sitution, maybe he's told her something to make you look bad? She's not much of a friend if she's doing that anyway
idk, maybe she's just that kinda person. she realised the guy is a jerk and that there is nothing anyone could do about it. maybe she's just telling you in some way that there is no point in fighting with him when he calls you names and i dont know what else, that its the best to just let him be an asshole and not pay any attention to what hes saying or doing. he wants to make you upset and you shouldnt let him cause its just not worth it.
i could be wrong so i think its for the best if you just asked her why shes acting like that...
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i think all she's trying to do is tell you to ignore him when he says stuff which i also think too, he's a bastard so what, let it go just don't let the things he says to you get to you and let them pas sover your head, he's probably saying them at the end of the day to get some sort of reaction out of you , well don't let him
if you want your friend to be more supportive tell her that you can't just ignore what he says and ask her opinion of the guy: if she says he's alright i'm not really bothered about any of this-then she's not btohered about your feelings and isn't a very good mate, if howver she says something like he's an idiot no one likes him but you should just ignore the things he says-then she does care and just because she doesn't let her feelings show about this guy it doesn't mean she doesn't want to cut his bollocks off either
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Yeah well that's what happens when you hang around with shitbags.
Tell her to go fuck herself and your ex tell him to go get hit by a bus return their cruelty and completely shut them out of your life and ignore them. Fuck them they're just morons and they don't deserve your friendship at all they don't even deserve to be in your life in the least.