Hes gone forever

TehKayla · 11-26-2007, 05:47 AM

thanks a bunch guyss yeahh its prety hardd but i dk im trying to find a bf cuz i think that will help you know some one that cares about you and what you have to say and shitt

indifferentx5590 · 11-26-2007, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by TehKayla

thanks a bunch guyss yeahh its prety hardd but i dk im trying to find a bf cuz i think that will help you know some one that cares about you and what you have to say and shitt

its good that you are trying to move on. but the best relationships come when you don't look for them. and don't be afraid to forgive an ex. i did, and we love each other for real (3rd times a charm)

TehKayla · 11-26-2007, 08:28 AM

yeahh
well i took ur guys' advice and i let itt all outt to someone i could trust i (my neww bf =D ) and feel much better now but i still miss him wayy too much but i think thats gunna take time toget over but im really happy that dustin cares about me and he listened to me and yeahh well andways thanks bunchh!!!

keystone/snowboard · 11-26-2007, 12:30 PM

im sorry for your loss and, hey, i know what your feelin here, i lost my dad oct 2nd and my grandpa nov 15th. its going to be very hard to deal with for a long time.

just remember the good times you had with him and try to forget the bad times....only time will heal this wound

punk13 · 11-27-2007, 08:27 AM

i know how ya feel my girlfriend died last year it takes a long time to clear ur head and u never are fully over them. only advice i can give is try not to think of his death remember the good forget the bad and spend as much time as u can with close friends nd famgive it time and ul move on

TehKayla · 11-27-2007, 11:08 AM

thankks

dagingercode · 11-27-2007, 11:17 PM

Damn.......... Sorry.

loopylaura285 · 11-30-2007, 10:33 PM

Hiya!!!

Ok Well I Have Been Through The Exact Same Situation Hun! My Best Friend Died 6 Months Ago Now And It Still Doesnt Get Any Easier! I Dont Particulary Like Writing About Things Like This Over These So If You Want To Talk And Ill Try My Best To Help You! I Helped A Girl A Couple Months Ago Who Was In A Similar Situation! If You Do Wans To Me About This Then Please Dont Hesitate And Leave Me A Comment On My Profile And Ill Get Back To You Giving You My Email Adress Maybe At Least On There I Can Be More Help! For The Time Being Just Know That Your Friend Is Looking Down On You Now! Im Sure He Wouldnt Want You To Be Upset Hun!!! Well Get Back To Me Soon!

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MissV · 12-02-2007, 01:29 AM

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Originally Posted by TehKayla

Ok well i havent really talked about what happend about 3 weeks ago much i've just kept it in me which was probally a bad idea cuz now all my feelings are comming back

well my best guy friend who i was extreamly close to, like he ment the whole fucking world to me died in a car crash it seriously tore me apart and latley memories have been comming back and i can't help but think hes not gunna be there

arg any thoughts on how i cant maybe somewhat get over it a little more

You're never going to "get over it". It will always be there.

I do feel for you. It's rough losing someone you're close to, i lost my mom back in July.

There are ways though, to cope with it. It's going to hurt for weeks, months, years, it depends on you. Just try to remember the good times. Don't dwell on things that hurt, or that he's gone. If you need to talk, talk. Don't hold things in because it makes it worse. I wish I knew what to tell you but I'm going through it too. You have parents and friends to talk to so don't hold anything back.

TehKayla · 12-02-2007, 03:11 AM

yeahh im gettingg there

Lilgirl · 12-02-2007, 04:17 AM

I'm very very sorry.i know how you feel.i lost mine too.his gf is jealous of me so we're no more that close

Angelwings411 · 12-02-2007, 04:20 AM

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Originally Posted by TehKayla

Ok well i havent really talked about what happend about 3 weeks ago much i've just kept it in me which was probally a bad idea cuz now all my feelings are comming back

well my best guy friend who i was extreamly close to, like he ment the whole fucking world to me died in a car crash it seriously tore me apart and latley memories have been comming back and i can't help but think hes not gunna be there

arg any thoughts on how i cant maybe somewhat get over it a little more

Wow.
Never happened to me before, so I honestly wouldn't know how to get over something like that.
Overtime things will get better.
Try to get involved in some activity to get your mind off of him.
And I am really sorry for the loss, dear.

E. Nygma · 12-02-2007, 04:26 AM

Don't be sad at all... Think of it in this light: in body he may be have crossed over but he'll always be in your memories and everything that reminds you of him. And besides, he's living another life on the otherside.

corpsegrinder. · 12-04-2007, 08:50 AM

I know how you feel, sweetie.
I know saying sorry won't help, so I won't bother with it right now.
I lost my brother a little over a month ago.
I still haven't gotten over it.
But if you need to talk, feel free to come to me.
I don't mind helping you vent, I know how it is.

It's hard, but time will eventually help you deal.
It's helping some for me, although not as good as I wish it were.

indifferentx5590 · 12-04-2007, 08:56 AM

bit of advice w/the new guy: take it slow. corny, i know. but it will benefit you in the long run.