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So i"m in 12th grade, and I hung out with this girl in grade 9, since my friends were her friends, and i became her friend. Well, the more I hung out with her, the more I liked her, and at one point I was thinking about asking her out. And i told our friend that, and she told the girl I like.
BUT the girl doesn't like me that way, and only wants to be friends. So she started ignoring me, and i finaly gave up, and now i only want to be friends again. but somehow our conversations are like forced and i don't know what to say because i get this feeling she really doesn't want to talk to me or be around me cuz it's uncomfortable now that she knows i liked her.
What do I do to make up with her and Only by friends like before?
Guys a little help on what to do, Girls, please tell me what to do here thank you plz hurry
Right. Well you've got a few options here, and I'll list the possible consequences of each aswell:
01: Ignore her.
PC: Not being friends again.
O2: Tell her you don't like her anymore.
PC: She may be offended.
O3: Force your prescence upon her until she gets used to it again
PC: She may not like it.
Whatever you do, there's a chance that it could be taken the wrong way, but that's life and you should be used to that. If you value your friendship with her enough, you should be able to know which of those choices would be best with a person with her personality.
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See, thing is, today i got a haircut, and she comes up to me with our friends and compliments me saying my hair looks good and then she said we love you friend, then on the way home on the bus, she never said a word. Wtf? Girls are so complicated.
Us girls aren't that complicated but I understand your confusion.
Just because your friend told her that you like her, doesn't mean she should ignore you. I don't really understand what she is doing.
Maybe she feels it is awkward or thinks it would be because she thinks you still like her.
She maybe complimented you on your hair because she was with friends and felt mroe confident.
Her actions are really confusing me and I am a girl myself.
I think you should ask to speak to her on her own, tell her you don't have feelings for her anymore as she made it clear she didn't like you and you moved on.
Ask her to be friends again and hope it works out.
If this doesn't work then I don't know what else you can do other than just stay with your group of friends and she may gradually talk to you again.
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I think she's made it pretty clear she doesn't want to talk to you and if you keep trying to have conversation with her she'll think you are flirting or hinting towards something, so just try avoiding her and forget about her.
If she's going to be immature and avoid you no reason you shouldn't do the same it's probably for the best anyways.
Umm, i think you missed one of my post in the middle of the thread.
She does talk to me normally when her friends are there, and even when there not she says a friendly hi and asks how it's going. But i don't know, every time we do have a conversation, i always feel aqward.
But sometimes she acts like we used to be, really good friends, others she just ignores me.
Umm, i think you missed one of my post in the middle of the thread.
She does talk to me normally when her friends are there, and even when there not she says a friendly hi and asks how it's going. But i don't know, every time we do have a conversation, i always feel aqward.
But sometimes she acts like we used to be, really good friends, others she just ignores me.
sounds like she wants her friends to believe she's still friends with you. i'd write her a note or something and tell her how you feel about the way she's acting. she may feel like physically talking by yourselves is akward. if you want to stay friends, maybe try hanging out with her in a group? she could just be avoiding talking to you because she may be afraid you are going to bring up the fact that you like her. she could feel afraid to tell you to your face how she really feels. she may not necessarily be avoiding you, but she may just be avoiding the situation in general.
update!
so today we were in the bus and she sat at the bench opposite to me, and i moved to my usual bench, and she say "hey! I moved here to be close to you". But that's not true cuz she was closer in another bench she was in before. Then she talks for a couple minutes and totaly zones out in though, looking out the window.
I wish she would just make up her mind, either ignore me or don't!