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I jiust transferred last year to a new high school and it was going great.. i even met this guy hu is very nice.. and we became close. but ever since then all my friends around me mostly the girls feel insecure about me and the guy because i guess they get jealous or sumthing which is stupid...
so yesterday i went to an event and they got all mad at me wen i went with the guy... and they said that i left them all alone... i only did that cuz i thought they had alredy gone home.. i even said sorry numeruous times evene though it really isnt all my fault.. but they dont want 2 except it.. how i deal with somthing like this? i really need help.. i hate getting in 2 fights...
Last edited by Jasmine1024; 11-28-2007 at 11:28 AM.
this is a hard question to answer. theres really not enough details about the situation.
from the information you provided, the only assumption i can make is that you "forgot" about your friends to hang out with the guy. if this is true, they have every right to be upset.
no not at all... i hardly even talk to the guy .. and they always 4get about me and i never get mad.. they even told me that there real reason that they get mad at me so easily is becuz they r insecure... it really sucks
Whether you hardly even talk to the guy or not, if you left your friends behind to go hang out with him, they have a right to be mad. Whether they do it to you all the time or not. You know how it feels. So why do it to them?
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Whether you hardly even talk to the guy or not, if you left your friends behind to go hang out with him, they have a right to be mad. Whether they do it to you all the time or not. You know how it feels. So why do it to them?
you don't have to be glued to your friends though, sometimes i don't even see some of mine during the day because we have different lessons and dfferent plans at break and lunch, it doesn't mean i'm not their friend, so she went somewhere with someone else..who cares? they should get over it, unless you left ONE of them alone so they had no one else with them they i don't see what the problem is
you don't have to be glued to your friends though, sometimes i don't even see some of mine during the day because we have different lessons and dfferent plans at break and lunch, it doesn't mean i'm not their friend, so she went somewhere with someone else..who cares? they should get over it, unless you left ONE of them alone so they had no one else with them they i don't see what the problem is
No, you don't have to be glued to them, but if you somewhere with them, ignore them and run off with someone else and leave them alone by themselves, I think that's just not right. It's just my opinion. If I have a guest over or something, I never leave them at the house or leave them anywhere if we go somewhere.
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This is what happens when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object.
No, you don't have to be glued to them, but if you somewhere with them, ignore them and run off with someone else and leave them alone by themselves, I think that's just not right. It's just my opinion. If I have a guest over or something, I never leave them at the house or leave them anywhere if we go somewhere.
hmm yeah but she didn't say that she was with her friends at the time, she said she went to an event with this guy and she thought her friends wouldn't be there, so i don't see the problem. Your exaggerating aswell no one said anything about ignoring anyone, she already thought they'd gone home so it's not like she's left them in the lurch and anyway even if she did she has her own life and can choose what to do, she shouldn't feel pressured by her friends to stay with them espeically if it's more than one person because then they have each other
If they're going to throw hissy fits then they're not mature enough friends to have. Friends who are mature know better than to treat their friends like that, and if they treat you like that let them get mad you are probably better off without them. That way you don't have to deal with them anymore.
There are better, more mature friends.
thx 4 the help... and nope i didnt leave them right in front of them they actually left me at place and i guess wen they got bak i wasnt ther anymore.. duh i didnt want 2 stik around there alone.. but i think they'll get over it... i really respect them.. thx again 4 all the help.....