Ok, my mother has hated me from the day I was born pretty much. She always goes crazy at me if I do something wrong. Its just her, I have no idea why, but my friends and family have come to accept it as just something that happens. When she isn't going insane at me, she treats me well, and we have nor porblems.

Anyway, My parents split up a few years ago, and my Mum has been getting worse and worse to me, she threatens me and stuff, but the next day she is fine, and apologetic. My father used to say he thought she was possessed. She just throws a massive tantrum at me about every two weeks lately, but yesterday, when we were in the car, she did it again, and I just snapped, I couldnt take it any more, so for the first time, I yelled at her and swore at her, and told her what I thought of her. Its the first time I have done anything to aggrivate her. When I got out of the car at my fathers, she told me she only has 2 sons now, and Im not one of them.

Im really confused as to why she treats me like this, especially when I do better at school and in life in general than my brothers. No-one else dislikes me like my mother does, and Im really confused.

Today Im shifting my stuff to my Dads house. Im going to live with him permanently now because I cant handle my mother any more. My Dad however, has just sold his small business, and doesn't have a lot of money, and is looking for a job, so we dont have much to go round between us.

Also, my girlfriend, who knows nothing of this situaution, is really giving me the impression she doesn't want to be with me anymore. We have been in love for 6 months exactly today, but lately she has been trying to avoid me and giving me lame excuses for not being able to do things, eg going to the movies.

Well there it is, Ive let it all out. It feels heaps better. Please post a comment or two if you have any suggestions or what I should do, if I should go back to my Mum, etc.

Thanks

I write "Mum" instead of "Mom" because Im from New Zealand, just in case you were wondering

umm...if your mom treats you as badly as you say, i wouldn't go back. you should stay wherever you think you'd be happiest.

as for your girlfriend, i don't know what to tell you. maybe you should just come out and ask her (nicely!) why she's acting like that. you may have been acting differently towards her as a result of the stress from your mom, and you may not have realized it. if you are still in love with her, why not do something nice for her to surprise her? to show her how you feel and that she matters. girls love gifts, even if they're small. its the thought that counts

The only reason Ive stuck with my Mum for so long is because my brother, and my pets etc are all there. Ive lived with her forever, and of course, shes my mother. Im just going to try living without her and see how it goes, but I dont know what to do if I cant take it and want to go back.

If you want to go back, tell your parents. I'm sure they'll understand. Just be like, "i tried it out, im not happy with it, i'd like to go back to live with mom." kind of thing.

you could probably visit your brothers.

If your girl is going to flush your relationship down the drain and act like a complete flake then she doesn't deserve you in the first place, and trust me there are so much better out there. Don't be afraid to break up with her just avoid her right back and someone even better will come along eventually. There's millions of other hot eligible chicas out there.
And as for your dad, he will eventually get the money sorted out just don't spend it needlessly or ask for too much in the meantime, and go live with him anyways. Your mom sounds annoying so I can't blame you at all for moving out. I really don't get along with my parents either all they do is drink and get piss ass drunk every single day and I'm sick of it I'm actually considering moving out pretty soon. I have alot of places to go, so yeah you're not the only one with problems.

Maybe you can help out your dad too by getting a part time job or something like that.

Wow. The thing about your mom, I think that if you like living with your dad better then you should stay with him. Not because of the money, but just because he's a better person, which it seems like it from your post. But if the money thing is getting in the way your guy's happiness, then maybe you should move back in with your mom until your dad is well ordered again. I think it's messed up the way your mom is treating you. But Im honestly impressed with the way you're handling it. Just because one person is acting bad, doesnt mean you make yourself like that too, and you havent.

And as to the girlfriend thing, Im a girl, so sometimes girls can also be going through something and not tell you, or maybe she just doesnt want to be with you. I dont like being mean, but Id rather tell you the truth than feed you lies. I would talk to her. Nicely, but in a private place and ask what was going on.

I hope this helped. (: