Either you are too hot and guys get intimidated, or you need an improvement on your personality. Maybe you have a reputation of being a whore, who knows!?

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Maybe they are nicer?!?! Not so.. up themselves? Not trying to compete with their friends for guys? I don't know really, think about it! If I was a guy; I would not be asking for your number!

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Okay, well I regret even asking this question.
These answers really hurt, maybe my post sounded extremely bitchy or something?! Maybe it was because I was upset at the time, and i dont understand all the harsh answers...because to be honest with you, if you asked any of my friends, the last thing they would say about me is that im conceited, trust me i have many many flaws, but i have very low confidence, and im having a hard time meeting guys, i cant approach them SO i was wondering what it is that makes a girl approachable, AND NOT gauging on personality if you're in a dark lit club and everyones dancing. Im not saying "oh im prettier than everyone therefore i shud get guys" im wondering if just looking at a girl can you tell how confident she is, etc. that makes you attracted or not attracted to her? Personality is way more important than looks, thats for damn sure, but first attraction is by looks, am i right?! This is why im so frustrated, because I know many of you have felt this way or have been in a similar situation, maybe I just worded my question wrong. :[

being pretty doesnt mean shit when your personality is ugly.

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maybe they go for personalty over looks i know i certainly do.

oh ok i jsut read the other one of ur posts. diffrent guys look for diffrent looks in girls and have induvidual liking of looks. some boys like 1 type of girl another boy likes a another simply the guys you met liked your freinds but dosent mean a guy wont like you. you will find someone. dont worry bout it.

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I have the same problem, i have low confidence and cant approach girls at all.

But if i was confident to approach girls i would try to talk to the ones who are smiling, laughing etc having a good time and seem easy to talk to. Good posture as well.

Your better off approaching guys, they wont care if you come to them. It will make your life a whole lot easier.

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You come off as a bitch. Anymore simpler than that?

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What is that good or bad?

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Those guys are probably just as scared about approaching you as you are of approaching them. Why not make the first move yourself? Shit it can be hard but it's sure as hell gets a lot easier afterwards.