(im 13) sorry if this is long and boring but please help.... in primary school me and this girl who was best friends with my enemy became secret bst friends then the secret came out and we were best friends and it was great! we had such good times.. but then she started copying me, EVERY SINGLE ONE of my hobbies she copied. i started guitar, so did she, i started netball so did she, i was tiger crazy, she went tiger crazy we both went horseriding and she was terrified and said she hated it so much and she'd never go again in her life, until i started! now shes all horse crazy too, and i never see her cos shes always with her 'horsey' friends, it really pees me off. and all my sayings she copies, my room, my hair my clothes my pets and there names!! i know your probaly thinking shes really insecure andcouldnt think of anything herself but shes like one ofd the most confident ppl i no. and b4 she started copyig me she had all her hobbies figured out. but she quit them 2 copy me. shes admitted it 2 one of ma friends but if its 2 me she quickly changes the subject. ive quit school and started home-schooling now, asnd it kills me 2 think shes being me at school. also she gets insanely jelous if i hang around with someone else, i no this sounds crazy but i havent seen her for 3 weeks n it worries me 2 think we mite not b friends cos i couldnt stnd it if she left me with all my style. what should i do? how can i not do it without wrecking our friendship? i dont have many other freinds cos they dumped me wen i went out of school, i got lots but they all live really far away. what do i do? please help u hav no idea how much this anoys me.

I would say, make new friends! Search for a new hobby, a new sport or something and get some friends there! Or go to another school. If you don't want to loose her as your friend, just talk to her and tell her you don't like it that she copies you.

I agree with Sophie

lol...its pissing you off that she's copying you, and you still want to be friends with her?

Forget about her...let her do her own thing and soon she will start to copy someone else. You need to move on. find new friends and do your own thing and just forget about that other girl

Agreeing with the latter, in this situation. Join clubs, sports, library activities- anything in the community. I've become really involved in my community throughout my middle school & high school career and i've met SO many people. Keep your mind open and realize that there will always be people like that out there and you just need to find the people that will support you and be with you through everything,- those are the ones worth befriending.