I've got a older (but even so, smaller than me) brother, who's got himself a fiancé, both of them being at the age of 17 (he proposed at age 16), and my mother obviously won't let them get married at such a small age.
Firstly, my brother is a complete liar. When we were little he'd do naughty thing around the house and my mother would have to ask which of us it was. After half a hour of him Denying it and me knowing god damn well it was him, whilst crying next to him (yes, we were very little) we would both then get punished (smacked etc...). My brother would sometimes own up after i shouted at him long enough afterwards. My mother knew he was a god damned liar all along, but she couldn't just punish him, so she always said she smacked me very lightly afterwards when he was gone.
Now he's grown up and goes to 6th form, non-compulsory education, skives off half the time, whilst all my money goes missing ALL the time unless its in the bank or hidden very stealthily. Recently, my savings and birthday money i had, (which i thought even HE wouldn't be evil enough to steal!), went walkies whilst i went on a holiday leaving my brother with my dad at home.
He comes home with thorntons choclates, (eating them in the bathroom, i found the wrappers after he hd a bath), millions of pizza hut bills for himself and his fiancé, and generally loads of bills which i find in his drawers for dinner for two people and chocolate, ( i found these whilst looking for my £5 note i planted in my bedroom for him to nick which had UV pen on it with my signiture, which i never found by the way! )
I know damn well it's him nicking it, my mums money goes missing all the time, my dads.... and i'm not exactly losing ALL of mine whilst all of mum and dads goes missing aswell! anyways its impossible to lose the amounts of money that goes missing.



What do i do? my mothers afraid he'll just run off with his girlfriend (sorry, "fiancé") if i row with him. The same priciple applies if i tie him up and make him beg for me to let him pay me back (That was my first idea 'till my mum said i shouldn't row with him, i even went to the shop to get the cable ties! i think that would've been revenge anyways). I've already asked him nicely, but he just shouted and swore back in my face so i walked away.

Has anyone any ideas on how to stop my evil brother from doing this kind of stuff?

Thanks very much everyone!!
Tj xxxxx

hes been like this all his life...u cant change it. he might get caught by the police or sumthin...he might learn then. but if uve done all that stuff already, i dont think anything u do will make him wanna change.

There's virtually no way to make a leopard change his spots. None. My uncle is a thief, a liar, a cheat.. and he lived with us off and on for 2 of 3 years. After everything, he's still a thief, liar and a cheat.

he's stealing money from his own family - how low and pathetic can you get :/. I'd confront him and hope he fucks off with his fiance and learns how to earn money.

It sounds like this is sibling favourites and you have a fat pig for a brother.

Confront him, if he runs away, problem solved!

If he tries to be a hard man, deck him.

Punch him in the face. Maybe then he'll learn.

Either that or start taking his shit and sell it on eBay. Show him who's boss. >:]

^ I know a friend who did that to his sister. She found out and beat the hell out of him. I got to watch.

wat she said! lmao

Your mom should kick him out.

and be like give me back my money bitch

all sounds a bit immature to me, try finding a place to keep your money so he can't steal it , maybe ask for a lock on your door that way he can't get in when your not there, or buy like a safe or soemthing, just avoid him stealing from you

I got u beat. My uncle's a killer. How's that? Anyway, once a douche always a douche is what I gotta say about your bro dude. You can't change that anymore than you can make the sun rise and fall.

At his age its impossible to try and change him.The best you can do is start putting all of your money in the bank.And the next time he steals from his own family, knock the hell outta em. At least, that's how we put it down in the United States.