hello, I've posted on here in weeks, some I have few questions that need to answered, if isn't too much trouble.

1. I just turned 18 recently, which means I'm offically an adult, which also means I can buy certin things, such as cigrettes, pron magazines, etc. Anyway, since I turned 18, these kids min my chemistry class have been bothering me, about getting them porn magazines, but I said, no, because why should I have to fulfull their pleasures for them? Plus, it's kind of embrassing to go to a store to buy that kind of stuff, you know? I mean I got nothing against porn, it just isn't something I think about all that often, I'm what people call in my school "sheltered" (doesn't do bad or perverted things). They keep saying they'll give me the money, but it's really getting on my nerves now, becuase they keep on and on about it. I feeli like I look stupid or a weakling, when I don't know what to do, but just say no. Is this bullying? Also, what should I do?

2. Like any other teenage guy, I tedn to look at girls alot. If I'm friends with them, I like to socialize with them in a somewhat flirting way, like giving hugs, tickling them, etc. Anyway, in one of my classes, there's a few girls that I do that do, and I don't what it is, when I do that stuff it turns me on. So, one day I found out from my teacher that some one told on me by saying, "he's touching too much.." or something like that, which is kind of ridiclous becuase I didn't touch their ass or boobs, I was just playing around with them, is that a crime? So, lately, I've been backing away from those particual girls to not cause toruble. I'm afraid I've damaged a friendships though, becuase since the beginning of the year, I've gotten close with them, until all this happened. I even liked one of them. Is there anything I can do to fix this, besides what I'm doing now?

3. I have alot of good friends, but my two best friends are a freshman and senior. Anyway, the freshman is a wild one. For example, at my house, he's messed up a couple of things, which my parents pissed off. He product from Wendy's down my toliet, til it got cloged, he jumped on my air hockey table, and broke it with his knee cap, now I can't use it anymore. Today, they came over, and senior went into the bathroom. While he was in there, the freshman took 4 folding chairs and stacked them against the door as a joke so they would fall on my senior friend, when he got out. When he got out of the bathroom, the chairs fell to the tile floor, causing a loud noise. My parents heard the noise, came downstairs, and had enough with my friends and kicked them both out. Now, they're kind of aggervated with me, becuase I didn't stick up for them. I didn't say anything at all when my dad was yelling at them. I didn't know what to say, I was in shock. Plus, I didn't want to upset my parents or my friends, so I thought I shouldn't say anything. How can I stick them up for something like that, you know? they know what they did. Don't get me wrong, I like friends alot, but there has to limit as to how far is too far, when it comes to fooling around. Plus, I would've felt awful if I lied to my parents. I just don't know what to do with my friends now, becuase I feel I did the right, but I still feel bad, and they're calling my dad an asshole, when he's not trying to be one, he's just trying to set rules and showing to respect someone elses property. I even told them many times, not to do what they did, becuase there will be trouble, but no one listens. What do I do?

4. There's this girl I really like. I'm good friends with her, I went to my sophmore dance with her last year, we're both in drama club together, I had a study with her last year. We've become really close, I guess. I wouldn't call us best friends though, we never actually hung out together, but we always good coversations and fool around everytime we see each other. Anyway, I still like her, and I told my two best friends about it, and they say I'm "not in her league", becuase she's hot, preppy and popular. Okay, so I'm not the most popular kid in school, I'm more in the middle, I guess, becuase everyone treats me good, so I'm well liked, no one's bullying me or challening me to fight them, etc. However, I consider myself preppy, because I wear those type of clothes and listen to that type of music, and also, I like to think myself as a good looking kid. Some girls have told me I'm either cute or hot. If she's really she doesn't act like it, becuase she's one of the nicest people I know, and very sweet (she gave me a nice gift on my b-day) Anyway, if I wasn't in her league, would she even accept my invition to my dance or be really nice ot be?

Thanks in advance!

I only read the first one, its a hell of a long post.

Just tell them to fuck off and watch porn on the net or something. Its better anyways.

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What has this damned world turned into? For stereotypical bullying, I'd suggest you to ignore them. But for such sickening behaviour, downgrade them. Go to their professors and tell them their offers in the lil' innocent voice. In front of the kids to hyperbolize the drama, of course.

Excuse my curiosity, but why do you have a tendency of such behaviour towards other girls, if there's particular one from your fourth paragraph?

What should you do? Absolutely nothing. Mind you, I simply do not understand how do you manage to refer people who do such things as friends. They do not mind ruining your property, even complain about not asserting them. Advice of mine, being very reserved, is to quit the friendship. But you certainly shall not do it, no?

Leagues, social norms, standards... Speaking of you and her, none of that exists. Just you and that girl. If she highly examines your social status, then she is not worth of anyone's effort.

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so am i

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Okay, so for number 1, just ignore them. Have nothing to do with them. If it continues going on, just tell on them.

2. I see nothing wrong with what you do, but you do need to be careful. Only tickle girls and stuff if they want you too.

3. You shouldn't have to stick up for your friends. They should respect your property and your parents property.

4. Social status doesn't matter. Ask her out if you really want to. You're already not dating her, if she says no, nothing changes. Or you could invite her to see a movie with you and your friends. Go out with her "as friends" and if something happens, it happens. The best relationships come out of friendships.

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