I was kind of pondering whether or not I should post my personal life here. But then again, I hope there are people out there that can answer some of my problems.

You see, uh.. well my dad and mom have been arguing and going at it for along time now, and it's because of my dad talking to the same woman all the time, and he talks to her until like 2 in the morning. Usually, I thought he was just talking right? But now I'm starting to think otherwise, my dad is becoming a total douche right now. This woman he talks to lives in Russia, and my mom knows this since she overhears some of his conversations.

But when my dad asked my mom if she wanted to go to Russia with him, just to get her pissed off. That's when I'm starting to think, my dad is a fucking sadist who's probably enjoying my crying every single god damn night, whenever he talks to that god damn fat ugly bitch on webcam. I never mentioned this to anyone before, but when I had to help my dad fix his car. I found a condom, now.. I never thought he would cheat on my mom, but now I'm starting to think my mom should get a divorce.

What do you guys think? Have you ever had this kind of situation before? Please post all of your comments or helpful tips on what I can do about this problem between my parents. I even talked to a guidance counselor, but all he says is "I understand what you are going through, buddy." While he probably doesn't give a two-shits or has never even gone through what I am going through.

wow.

Discovering something about someone youd look up to or think would never do something like that is hard.

im no expert and my advice will probably not even help lol..but

have you tried asking him? asking your dad if he is actually cheating on your mum? i mean to me it sounds like he is..
but still you should find out from him first before you jump to conclusions?

where does this russian woman come from? obviosuly he's had to tell his wife that she is "just a friend" , the condom in the car... well , he is married so it's not uncommon, but is a little suspicious considering it's in his car, some marriage don't work out and fall apart and theres nothing you can do to stop it, but you could try being a little sneaky and go on his computer, find out who this russian woman is , what he speaks to her about etc

I jumped to conclusions, when he talks to her all day until 2 in the morning. And my mom doesn't even say anything now, I feel like cursing the hell out of my dad and throwing his labtop out of the window.

well...then do what nicole91 suggested?
do research..find out who this russian gal is?

and then give your dad a piece of your mind.
Remind him that he is married with kids the dickhead (no offence.)

if you ask your dad if he's cheating, he's most likely going to deny it. if you tell your mom about what you've found, it will probably upset her more, but she needs to know. i would just let her know what you found, and let her decide on her own what to do about it. its not really a place for you to be involved....its their problem, not yours to worry about.

i agree with most the people here

do what nicole said

Don't get involved
1 - your mother could blame you for the divorce
2- it could cause family rift.